8 Things What Men Want and Desire in Bed

If you were to ask a guy, what men like in bed or desire, you’re probably going to end up with a lot of vague answers. And honestly, that’s because most men don’t know WHAT men want in bed! “Someone who can go down on me?” “a girl that looks hot” or “a great ass and tits”. Sigh!

As a girl, you need to know that it’s more than just appearances, it’s about looking into the sexual experience. When would you, as a girl, say that the sex was great? You’d obviously know you’ve had great sex when you experience a mind blowing experience that opens the flood gates of ecstasy down there! So if you’re wondering what men want in bed, keep in mind that they want a girl who can give him an experience of a lifetime too.

# When you drop hints

When it comes to women, men can sometimes be pitifully clueless. Men like it when you drop hints on how much you desire him sexually; whether it’s through a subtle text or an all-out sexy photo, they just love to be teased.

# When you speak up

He’s no mind reader and neither are you. Why not cut the time of him trying to find out what turns you on and just tell him what you like in bed. You don’t need to give him a list. Instead, during foreplay or sex, tell him. He’ll change his methods pretty quickly when he sees your reaction.

# Confidence

If you want amazing sex, you need to show him that you know how lucky he is to have you in his bed. Confidence is key in everything. However, it’s also very important when it comes to sex.

Get over your jiggly thighs or your tummy, you need to love and own these parts of your body. There are women who don’t do specific positions because of their insecurities, but men don’t care. If you own your insecurities, it’s even hotter.

# When you’re being naughty

Even when you have that naughty streak in you, you may often hold back when it comes to your man, especially when you’re in a serious relationship.

This could be caused by the fear of shattering that “good girlfriend/goody two shoes” image that you think your guy holds you in. However, men also want to see that feisty and raunchy side of you, especially in bed.

# When you let him watch

Men are visual creatures, there’s no question about it. So make sure to give him a good eyeful when you’re getting it on. Better yet, position yourselves in front of a mirror and give him a great view. You can also make him watch you as you undress, get dressed, or even touch yourself.

# When take control

Men love it when you take control in bed! You don’t need to wait for him to make the first move, this isn’t the 1950s. If you want to kiss him, make the first move and go from there. He’s not going to push you away and reject you. You guys have had sex before so this won’t be an issue. He’ll probably be surprised that you made the first move which will make him even more aroused.

# When you give him a wake-up call

A sexy one, that is. To a guy, there are only a few things that are as awesome as waking up with a girl on top of him, riding his morning wood. So every once in a while, when you find his pole up in the morning, try to tease it a little and wake him up with a delicious breakfast spread: you!

# When you turn yourself on

Women can need a lot of things before they get into the mood. For guys, it may just be too much work, so he’ll surely like it if you give yourself a head start every once in a while. Get yourself into a wet, sexual state of mind, even if it means fantasizing about Chris Evans instead of your man *just don’t tell him about it*.