8 Tips To Talk Dirty To a Man Like a Pro

So many women think that dirty talking is just saying, “I’m wet,” which is a good way to start the conversation, but it takes more skill than that. If you think you don’t have the talent to know how to talk dirty to a man, you’re wrong.

You have it in you. You just need to unleash the beast. It’s not slutty, there’s nothing wrong with talking dirty. It’s a great way to build sexual tension and keeps things spicy.You just need to find the way that suits you and your style. So, I’m going to give you a how-to guide for talking dirty to your man. Once you dirty talk with your man a couple times, you’ll get the hang of it. You’ll be able to dirty talk while baking a souffle, yes, it’ll just come naturally to you.

So, let’s get you started on everything you need to know about how to talk dirty to a man. A little dirty talk never hurt nobody.

# Do it if you’re comfortable with it

If you feel pressure to talk dirty, but you’re not comfortable with it, don’t do it. Maybe you just need to give yourself some time to warm up to it, especially if you’ve never done it before. So, you don’t have to start off with the advanced lingo, you can send a cute selfie of yourself to start things off.

# Dirty talk shows them what you like

Use dirty talk as a way to show them what you’re sexually interested in trying out. This is also a good way to gauge what they’re into and if you two are sexually compatible. If he’s into BDSM and you’re not, well, you’ll find out quite quickly.

# Use words that you want them to use on you

If you don’t want a man to call you a bitch or slut, then don’t call yourself those words while dirty talking. Set the lingo to show him what turns you on and what doesn’t. Dirty talking puts you in a great position to educate them on what you want without having sex with them first.

# Be descriptive

Men are visual, so you want to really describe to them what you’re doing to them and vice versa. Now, don’t write an essay. Keep it short and sweet, but you can say things like, “I’m slowly taking my underwear off, while one hand rubs my vagina.” See? Did you picture it in your head? If so, then that’s the goal when it comes to knowing how to talk dirty to a man.

# But you can use photos as well

You can use photos to enhance your dirty talking or to start the conversation. You don’t have to take a nude photo, it can be with clothes on. Do something that makes you feel comfortable and sexy in the skin you’re in. He’ll eat it up like butter, trust me.

# Find your bedroom voice

You need to find our bedroom voice. If you talk dirty to him in person or on the phone, you’ll want to have a bedroom voice. Now, because you’ll be horny, this voice naturally occurs to you, you’ll notice it right away. This deep, raspy tone most women tend to have really turns men on when they talk dirty.

# Be open with your fantasies

If you want to be good at dirty talking, you’re going to have to let all those social norms and standards disappear from your head. You need to be completely free and open with what you want sexually. Do you want him to cum on your face? Tell him. If you restrict yourself, the sexual connection won’t be as good and neither will your dirty talk.

# Compliment him

Through dirty talk, you can compliment. You can say, “I love your big dick inside of me,” or “You’re so sexy, you make me so wet.” Who doesn’t like getting compliments while having sex? Exactly.

It turns him on even more and gives him a little confidence boost which you’ll feel while he fucks you. But make sure these compliments are genuine and not overstated or else it loses its charm.