9 Major Signs He Thinks About You All The Time

He loves me. He loves me not. He loves me. He loves me not… mutters every woman in love wondering if she has been on his mind. Instead of plucking away at those flowers and ending up with a carnage of pretty petals at your feet, I hope you know you could look for signs he thinks about you a lot, or not.

Does he often send you a good night text? Does he find excuses to meet you? Do you frequently see the three dots even though he doesn’t hit send? Has his best friend recently mentioned he talks about you all the time? Well, he might not say that he is into you. Fine! You don’t need him to when you have these many signs that tell you he is thinking about you all the time.

# He sends you a good morning text

Okay, we admit this is one of those clear signs he thinks about you a lot. You probably don’t need us to tell you that you have been on his mind. You’re clearly on his mind right as he begins his day if you get a good morning text from him every morning. Happy, aren’t you?

But don’t worry if he doesn’t do so every day and his texts are not a clear “Good day to you too” wish. Maybe he is shy. Maybe he doesn’t want you to think of him as a clingy creep. But you will get a sense that is trying to keep in touch with you by picking up excuses to say hello every morning.

# He doesn’t forget to wish you good night

No matter if he lives in another town or next door. No matter if you just saw him an hour ago when he dropped you off at your door. If he is into you he wouldn’t forget to call you or drop you a good night text. It says a lot if he thinks of you in his quiet moments, right before drifting into peaceful sleep.

When he has a chance to look back at his day, he chooses to cherry-pick the memories of you and pushes everything else aside. Such text messages in the dead of the night are clear signs he thinks about you a lot.

# His friends tell you they have heard so much about you

“Is he thinking about me even though we don’t talk all the time?” If you find yourself wondering that a lot, it can help to pay attention to the vibe you get when you meet his friends. If they seem to like you too, it definitely says he likes you. Every friend of his you have never met before always approaches you with a friendly vibe, extending a hug and the same dialogue, “Oh! I have heard so much about you.”

His friends’ knowledge and interest in your life are signs he thinks about you a lot. Why wouldn’t it be? He is talking about you even when you are not around. Besides, him sharing your existence in his life with his friends is also one of those signs he thinks you are beautiful and intelligent and that he realizes your worth.

# He likes your posts on social media

He not only follows you everywhere around in the virtual world but he also actively engages with the content you put up. That is a sign he thinks about you a lot. He might have followed you on your social media accounts for courtesy’s sake. But the likes and comments that he can’t stop sending your way indicate genuine interest. He does these things because he wants to engage with you and be more than friends.

“Is he thinking about me even though we don’t get to meet often?” Do you worry about this question? Well, we, for one, think you have nothing to worry about. The fact that he publicly engages with you on social media shows he is not trying to hide whatever relationship you have with him. He doesn’t want to shy from telling the world that he is in your intimate circle. He likes your posts and compliments you on your pictures. These are signs he thinks you are beautiful and charming and wants to be seen with you.

# He remembers things you tell him

He asks you about your presentation at work or a meeting you had with the homeowners’ association or that family dinner you mentioned a month ago. Firstly, that he remembers things you tell him shows that he is a good listener and pays attention to you when you speak.

And second, he doesn’t just dump away that information in a murky corner of his brain. He retains the information. You take up prime real estate in his mind. These are signs he thinks about you a lot because even if you told him about it weeks before, he can figure out what you have on your agenda for the day.

# He doesn’t use his phone much when he is with you

Have you paid attention to people’s behavior in social settings these days? How many of them talk to each other and how many are glued to their screens? How many times do you reach out for your phone even if you don’t have to take a call?

Most of us reach for our phones when we tend to get bored. That’s why one of the most evident signs he listens to you actively is that he doesn’t use his phone when he is with you. He has things to talk to you about, things to ask, things to do that he had planned when he was thinking about you earlier. He doesn’t need the crutch of his phone when he is with you.

# He initiates plans with you

Is he always asking you out, inviting you to parties, asking you to meet his people, or doing things together – just the two of you? Each time when he calls you to ask you about your plans, he obviously spent some time wondering what you were doing, if he should call you or not, and how much fun it would be to see you again.

If he is the one initiating plans, at least as many times as you do, if not more, you should see it as a sign he thinks about you a lot. He might even want to check off things from his bucket list for couples with you.

# His family knows about you

C’mon! You know he wouldn’t tell his family about you if he didn’t think you were important to him and if he weren’t thinking about you. Maybe you have already met them. Did they too tell you that they had heard so much about you? Did it feel like they already knew you even though you hadn’t met them before?

This indicates he talks about you a lot with his family, so much so that he now feels comfortable letting you socialize with them. Now all that’s left is for you to impress them in your first meeting.

# He remembers your birthday

This is basic. But basics often give a clear indication of the presence or absence of something. If he doesn’t remember your birthday, he doesn’t think about you enough. Maybe he likes you, maybe he doesn’t. But he certainly doesn’t like you enough to wait for your birthday just so he could meet you, party with you, and show his love by giving you something.

A guy who thinks about you a lot will remember your birthday. Period. If it is a guy you broke up with and are trying to maintain distance from, you wouldn’t in the least expect him to remember your birthday. If he still ensures that he wishes you on your birthday even if you are not talking to each other, it is one of the signs he is thinking about you during no contact.