9 Signs She is Not Interested in Going For a Second Date

An important dating tool is knowing the signs she’s not interested in a second date. It’s important you figure out if she wants to go on a second date or not. There’s no point continuing to speak with someone who isn’t even interested in seeing you again. Why waste your time?

The weirdo in me loved going on first dates because I enjoyed seeing the other person full of nerves and awkwardness. It helped me settle my nerves knowing the other person was just as nervous. Plus, awkward situations were my thing.

My friends loved to hear the cringe-worthy situations I put myself through. Some of those dates ended up with a second or third date, but many of them ended right then and there.

# She tells you

This is honestly the best outcome you could ask for. Rather than fishing around, she just tells you straight up that she enjoyed her time but didn’t feel there was chemistry. You have all the information you wanted to know, and now you can move on with peace of mind. It may sting at first, but it’s better in the long-run.

# The conversation feels forced

It feels like you’re pulling teeth out of someone’s mouth when you’re trying to talk to her. She gives short answers without asking you any questions.

You’d have a better time talking to yourself, which is almost what you’re doing. If you need to force the conversation, it’s clear she’s not interested.

# Her laugh is forced

You can spot a fake laugh one mile away; it’s not that hard to tell when someone is acting fake. If she’s not having a good time, she’ll fake laugh herself to the end of the date so she can just go home. If her eyes aren’t matching her smile, well, then it’s not genuine.

# It was a short date

One key sign that the date went well is how long the date ended up being. If it was a long date and you were laughing and constantly talking, that’s a good sign of connection. But if the date ended after one drink or she suddenly had a reason to leave, well, you now know that this is one of the clear signs she’s not interested in a second date.

# She was on her phone most of the date

Oh, well, if she spent most of her time looking at her phone, you know that’s not a good sign. Someone who likes you will keep their own phone hidden away, focusing solely on the date. If they’re on their phone and not engaging with you, then they’re simply rude and uninterested in your company.

# You physically touched her, and she rejects it

Listen, on a first date; you shouldn’t be touching her at all. This is the date where you’re getting to know her, so keep your hands to yourself. But if you did try to put your arm around her or hold her hand and she rejected it, well, that’s not a good sign for you. Keep your hands to yourself.

# She’s asking all the questions

You may think this means she’s into you, but this is also a tactic to keep the conversation going without having to invest herself in it. She tells you very little about herself, and asks you endless questions, making you think the conversation is going well. But it’s really just one-sided.

# She talked about her ex… a lot

You may lightly touch upon your exes *even though I strongly suggest not to on a first date*, but she decided to keep going with it. Half the date ended up being about her past relationship, and if anything, that shows you she hasn’t moved on yet. She’s not interested in dating someone; she’s looking for a rebound.

# She asked to split the bill

This is a little bit of a tricky one. Some women really do feel more comfortable splitting the bill, whether they like the guy or not. But then some women ask to split the bill to remove any expectations and give their date the “this is only going to be a friendship” hint.