9 Signs Your Man Doesn't Love You Anymore

You are truly in love with your boyfriend. But, there is something that is making you suspicious that he doesn't love you back and that he isn't really in love with you anymore. How do you really know if he doesn't love you anymore? This can be hard, especially when you don't know what to look for when you suspect that your boyfriend doesn't feel the same anymore. You need to know these 9 signs in order to know for sure if he doesn't love you anymore, or if you are just insecure and that you might have gotten something wrong about your suspicion that he might not love you anymore.

# A common sign is that he can't say that he loves you anymore

The first and most common sign that he doesn't love you anymore is if he can't say that. He might be saying something like I like you very much, but not in love with you. Or, he would say something like: I love you, but as a brother loves his sister. These are the most obvious reasons that he doesn't love you anymore. However, there are also some other signs like when you are saying that you love him and he doesn't respond or make if he didn't hear you. Or, even worse, he is just changing the subject. This might be cruel, but this is the most common signs that your boyfriend isn't in love with you anymore, and that he even might have someone else that he loves a lot more. You shouldn't force your boyfriend to say that he loves you. He needs to mean it before he can say it. And, if he doesn't love you, you shouldn't stay with him. Even if you love him. He should also not tell you that you know that he loves you. He should be able to say the words I love you and mean every word to believe that he is really telling the truth.

# He isn't listening when you are telling him something

You are telling him what happens to you today or talking about something that was bothering you during the day. After talking for a while, you realize that he is playing on his phone, or just watching television and it is obvious that he isn't really listening to you. And, if you are asking him if he listened to you, he replies that he did listen. But, if you are asking him what you should do about the situation, he looks confused. When this happens, you need to know that he doesn't love you anymore and that he doesn't care enough to listen to your needs or problems that you might have. You should just make sure that you don't confuse between not listening and not hearing you properly. Especially, when he is watching something on television.

# He compares you to other women

This is something that no woman wants. That your boyfriend is comparing you to other women. He is saying that he wishes that you could cook like another woman, or that you could dress like other women. If he starts to compare you to other women in general, you need to know that there is something seriously wrong with the relationship. He is irritated by the way you are doing things, because he doesn't love you enough, anymore. You are a person with your own preferences, and there isn't any reason to be compared with other women. And, when this happens you need to know that love isn't in your relationship anymore, and you don't need to take the humiliation to be compared.

# Signs is that he is avoiding physical contact with you

Women like to be touched and getting a hug or two from the man she loves. However, there might come a time when your boyfriend is avoiding physical contact with you. He isn't holding your hand anymore when you are going out, or he is just saying goodnight without giving you the normal kiss. Or, he isn't holding your hand when you are among his friends, and he normally did. Something that all women know, is that man likes touching their woman and holding her hand when they are going out. This is to say to the other guys that she is taken. If this is something that he did do before, and suddenly he isn't doing anymore, then you need to know that he doesn't love you any more or the way he should. This is normally the first sign that this relationship is doomed. You need to talk to him about it and see what he is responding. He might indicate that he isn't sure about the relationship anymore.

# Your boyfriend doesn't come to visit you much often

Every night after work, your boyfriend made a point to come and visit you. Sometimes he also brings dinner and a movie with him. However, this is getting more and more common that he doesn't come to your home as much anymore. And, when you are phoning him about why he isn't coming over, his response is that he is busy or that he is really tired. Yes, maybe he is really tired, especially if he changed work. However, if he doesn't have any reason not to come over, you need to realize that he is trying to tell you something by staying away. The best way to get answers is to talk to him and to make sure that you know if he still loves you or not. You need to make sure that you are not just getting lame excuses on why he isn't coming to visit you and taking you out as much anymore.

# He doesn't love you anymore when he doesn't trust you

You didn't give your boyfriend any reason not to trust you. You didn't cheat on him, ever, and you didn't lie to him before. But, you are getting the feeling that he is really not trusting you anymore. He is wondering all the time if you are doing that can ruin your relationship. Normally when someone can't trust one that didn't give them reasons, might mean that there is something seriously wrong in the relationship. If your boyfriend doesn't trust you, it might be because he is the one that can't be trusted. Love and trust are going hand in hand. The one can't go without the other. So, if trust isn't there anymore, love might also not be there anymore.

# Your boyfriend is telling you that he needs space

This is another sign that your boyfriend isn't in love with you anymore. He is asking you for some space. What space, because he isn't there as much anymore? Maybe he isn't in love with you and he wants to get out of your way so that he can go on with his life, without you. The moment that a boyfriend is asking you for some space, you need to see the warning lights that there is something seriously wrong with your relationship. And, that the reason might be that he wants to get out of the relationship because he doesn't love you anymore. Don't stay with him when he just needs to have some space.

# Signs that He isn't in love with you anymore and keeping secrets from you

It can be obvious when he isn't in love with you anymore. Not only are you seeing that he is keeping secrets from you, but he is lying about it when you are talking to him about the secrets he is keeping from you. Secrets are the start of a broken relationship and if you know for a fact that he is keeping secrets from you and lying about it, it might be a sign that his love gone out of his heart. That he even might have someone else in his heart now and doesn't want to tell you what it is. Secrets are something that can be ruining any type of relationship because trust is broken and hearts are sore. If he can't answer you straight when you suspect that he has a secret, then you need to make sure if he is still in love with you and interested in this relationship. You don't keep a secret from the one you love.

# Signs that Your boyfriend is trying to change who you are

You are who you are, and there isn't any reason why anyone should want to change you. Especially the one you love and that is supposed to love you for who you are. He was satisfied with the real you, when you just first met and when you first started dating. This was because he was in love with you and was loving you deeply. Now, that is starting to change, he is trying to change you so that he can try to love you again. This isn't right and you should not even consider changing for anyone. Even not for the one that you love. You should be proud of who you are and he should love you just the way you are. This isn't a healthy relationship when he is trying to change you and make you into something that you aren't and that might cause you to be unhappy. You deserve better and he is for sure not in love with you anymore.