9 Ways To Be a Super Sugar Baby

So if you want to be the sweetest, most successful sugar baby without a hitch, you better read up on these tips.

Let’s say you’re an attractive junior college student who wants to graduate debt-free. Or perhaps you’re a driven entrepreneur who wants to launch your startup and is seeking a boost with some financial help. Or you could be someone who is just so used to the fancy and luxurious lifestyle that you’re looking for someone who can support you in that department.

And then you meet someone who is already successful, stable, and earning loads of money. And that person just so happens to be so into you, showering you with not only affection but all your material and financial needs and even whims. You don’t know it yet, but you’re a full-fledged sugar baby *you can give yourself a pat on the back now*.

# Feelings? What feelings?

Emotions can make a relationship with a sugar daddy or mommy messy. Really messy. Sugar daddies or mommies want you to provide drama-free, mess-free, and fun relationships. So don’t bring in your emotional baggage into the equation. Be careful not to have unrealistic expectations as well. Not all sugar daddies can devote all their time, attention, effort, love, and money to you.

# Have the right ‘tude

Get into any *sugar daddy/mommy – sugar baby* relationship without any illusions or delusions. Often, your partner may just be in it as a way to have someone on a casual, no-string-attached basis. There’s no pressure to be anything – so serious or long-term. The agreement may already be in place, so you have to be in the right frame of mind to make it work.

# Know what you want and need

When you decide to be a sugar baby, then you know that the relationship dynamics will be different. So don’t be afraid to ask. But first, go over what your needs and wants are. Sugar daddies respond well if you ask them for an “investment” into your startup or venture, whether it’s your travel blog or makeup tutorial webinar.

# Don’t settle for less

Being a sugar baby means you have to be honest to yourself about how you see yourself and your self-worth. Never compromise your morals and values. There are people out there who would try to get the most out of you for as little as they can, and this isn’t good. Don’t settle.

Hold your ground and build a connection with someone who knows your boundaries and can make you happy on your own terms, while at the same time, putting in an effort to return the affection.

# Invest on your looks

As a sugar baby, you have to take care of yourself. It’s not called “sugar hag” for a reason. So brush up on your makeup skills, go hit the gym on a regular basis, and go easy on those cronuts. Your partner would want you to look and feel your best so you can give your very best to them as well.

# Hush the critics

Again, contrary to popular belief, not all sugar babies are gold-diggers. It’s deeper than that, actually. Often, sugar babies are there not just for sex, but also as a companion, arm candy, or even serious wife material. Some people really are just looking for someone to shower all their love, affection, and money on, and you just happen to love receiving all those. As with anything you do, don’t mind the critics – and just mind your own business.

# Be patient

Not all people you meet who seem to be sugar daddy/mommy material really fit the bill in the long run. Therefore, it takes patience.

You have to put in a lot of work, too. Shower them with affection, time, and be there for them, especially in times when they need to be with someone who really cares. Once you get that connection, then you can go in for the kill.

# Know what daddy wants

Some want constant companionship, some want to have a trophy girl/boyfriend, and yet others just want to have someone to be on the receiving end of all their affection and gifts. The best and most successful sugar babies know what their sugar daddy/mommy wants and they become just that. It’s all about fulfilling a need and getting your reward in return.

# Don’t be afraid to ask

If you don’t ask, you’ll never know or get what you want. Since your relationship is based on a give-and-take exchange, you have to assert yourself on what you want to receive. Considering that you have your arrangement laid out, your partner will appreciate it more if you know what you want, and tell him or her about it.