Mistakes You Must Avoid on Social Media Post Breakup

It is not so easy to emerge from a breakup, but just as there is light after night, there is also a good time after hard times. But the difficult thing at the time of breakup is that these days a person feels very lonely. At such times it is not possible for family and friends to listen to that person the whole time because everyone has their own work. In such a situation, her breakup is not improved and she posts or posts various types of posts on social media, after which the consequences are seen. Know from the article what mistakes should not be done on social media after the breakup.

# Don't change your relationship status immediately

You broke up with your partner, but the entire world doesn't need to know. Your friends and common peeps already know about it--so your Facebook feed doesn't need to change immediately. It's a personal crisis, so you don't need to shout from the rooftops and let each and everyone know. Keep it close. Let people figure it out on their own.

# Showing yourself happy

Many people start putting different kinds of pictures of themselves after a breakup so that if they see the person in front or their friends, they feel like how happy you are without them. By doing this, even after the breakup, if there is any possibility of saving the relationship, then that too will end forever. Hatred will take a more formidable day in the mind of both.

# The business of blocking

The game of unfriending your ex and blocking them on social platforms is a done to death concept. You do it in the heat of the moment, and later realise you shouldn't have. It's okay to unfriend them if their presence in your friend list or his updates bother you way too much. If you wish to stay friends with your ex, then it's probably not the best idea to unfriend or block him. On a completely different note, if you react too early on social media it lets your partner know how much you're affected. You don't want that, right?

# Do not put negative posts

if you stay away from a bad post for a long time after the breakup and are sharing a very negative post, then first of all it will affect your mental health because you are the one who has given us 15-20 times a day will see. Also your other friends will see you again and again and make an impression for you that you have become very negative and it is better to stay away from you.

# Stalking

Believe it or not, stalking your ex will do you no good. Once you start, it becomes a routine and you don't even realise it. You tend to look at their profile everyday and hurt yourself even more. You get affected seeing their happy pictures and night outs with friends. It hits you worse when you see them with a new partner.

# Posting pictures with a new partner

This one is a big NO-NO! We understand you need a shoulder to lean on and vent your emotional grudge--but that person can't be your new partner so soon. His pictures should definitely not go up on your social media. We say this not because you will be judged, but by doing it you may invite more trouble. You've gotten into it too early. You know what we mean, don't you? Doing it intentionally to hurt your ex is really cruel. Imagine if the roles were reversed and your partner does the same to you. How would you feel?

# Don't pretend to be okay!

You aren't okay at all. No matter how painful it may sound--but that's the harsh truth. You are not okay. Nobody is, after a breakup! Hence, you need to stop pretending that you are fine, especially on social media. Don't go all out posting motivational quotes on heartbreaks and love on your social media. It's stupid, plain stupid. Don't fake it, if you aren't happy. Remember, there will always be that one friend who would take a screenshot of your post and circulate it among the common friends. You don't need that in your life.

# Tinder CAN'T be the solution

The first advice you receive after your breakup, is to join Tinder. Tinder has become the one-stop destination to fix all heartbreaks. But it's not! Tinder can't fix the pain you're going through. Moreover, talking to random strangers can get awkward right after a breakup. Instead, spend some time with yourself and do things you like to get over it.