It is most important for marriage, to understand each other and to support each other. If you know someone well and you feel that he will support you with every grief and happiness, you will be happy with him, then the distance of age does not matter. Whether or not marriage is a bond that everyone has to accept, sometimes for the happiness of family, sometimes for the satisfaction of the society or sometimes for themselves (that there must be stability in life now). Whether it is love marriage or arranged marriage, age difference between boys and girls is common.
In earlier times there was a lot of difference between the age of the boy and the girl, but in today's time this difference is seen only in one or two years. In fact, sometimes the girl is seen much older than the boy. Whether or not there should be a difference in the age of the girl and if so, how much should be there, so that their mutual relationship does not have any bad effect, it is considered a controversial issue. , Let us see the difference between the age of boys and girls, what is the effect on their marital life-
1. When the husband's wife is younger and there is a difference of 1-2 years between them, then their life is quite satisfied. Young couples enjoy every moment of their life.
2- According to a research, the person who is married to a woman younger than him is very happy, while the person who is married to a woman older than him is always unhappy.
3-From the point of view of women, they are dissatisfied with their older husband because they do not understand her feelings. If the husband is younger than her age, then women are happy.
4. Some husbands have a lot of gaps at the age of the wife. Mostly in backward villages, where men are married to girls younger than themselves. In such marriages, girls have to face a lot of problems. Some husbands of old age, domineering Due to tendency,
At the same time, some older husbands behave like fathers. In both the situations, the eldest husband, at all times, keeps a vulture eye on his wife getting up, speaking, even every activity of her. In such a situation, sometimes girls feel so suffocated, that they either knock the court door or lose their lives by suffocating (exceptions are seen everywhere. Dilip Kumar-Saira Banu, Saif- Kareena's marriage is considered a successful marriage despite her husband being older.)
5 - There is a lot of impact on children as there is a lot of difference in age. Apart from this, the husband and wife fall in love after a few years, due to which the distance in the relationship, post-marriage relationship flourishes, due to which there is a slowing of the natural development of the children due to increasing home discord and tribulation.
6.Women mature two to three years earlier than men as also they reach menopause earlier. The boy is expected to be older than the girl. This has traditional acceptance and scientific bearing.
7. Traditionally, sastras (treatises) say man has to marry younger woman, who is physically and mentally healthy. Culture and traditions also stress on the wife being younger. Vatsyayana’s Kamasutra prescribes a three- year age gap.
8. A factor that does impact on the relationship outcomes of age-gap couples is their perceptions of social disapproval.
In the end, the age difference between husband and wife should be such that friendly behavior can be maintained between them. One pan should not be heavy on the other, and the married life should be happy.