Here are Some of The Signs of Cheating To Look Out For

If you are keen enough, you will always be in a position to pick up the key signs that your girlfriend or wife is cheating on you. The latter seems to be the case because there are certain signs that your woman will exhibit from time to time, either knowingly or unknowingly. And that should give you an inkling of what your next move should be. If you ever experience this, the best thing for you to do will be to either make things right or walk away. Without further ado, here are some of the signs of cheating to look out for:

* If The Girl You Are In A Relationship With Isn't Including You This Might Be a Sign She Is Cheating

Okay, let’s be honest for a moment, you’ll not be considered paranoid to think your girl is cheating when she keeps doing her thing without including you. If she loves you as much as you think she does, then she will do everything in her power to make you a part of all that she does. A relationship involves two people. As the saying goes, it takes two to tango. Not including you as much as she is supposed to might be a sign that she has another partner to tango with. And that, needless to say, should be reason enough for you to worry. If she displays this sign, then you should start considering the possibility of your girl being a cheater.

* Your Girl Avoiding Important Relationship Questions and Being All Paranoid About It Might Be a Sign of Cheating with a Male Friend or Coworker

When your woman starts avoiding obvious questions, then she is definitely exhibiting signs that she is cheating (or at least entertaining the possibility of doing just that). According to psychology, asking questions evokes a subliminal response that can give you away prior to your verbal response. The latter knee jerk response might unveil her as a possible cheat and so the best thing for her to do is avoiding the question altogether. If she keeps on avoiding questions especially about her male friends in the “friend zone” or “bro zone” brackets, then there is a problem. Just know that it is a sign that someone is being let out of the friend zone from time to time.

* A Sudden Interest In All Your Moves Can Be A Sign That She Is Cheating

Whether she is planning on cheating with a coworker or a best friend, your woman will always want to know where you are and what you are doing. More often than not, it might be because she cares about you, misses you, or wants to feel included. But in some cases, she just wants to know where you are so that she can hook up with that “side piece” without being caught. The latter always happens especially in the case of a long distance relationship. A well-seasoned cheater will always make plans based on your plans – which translates to never getting caught. So if she does this more often than normal, it might just be a sign that she is a cheat, and a prolific one for that matter.

* If Your Contribution In The Relationship Isn’t Good Enough Anymore, She Might Be Cheating

At one point, your woman loved everything about you - including all of your imperfections. But now, everything you do disgusts her; from the way you chew your food all the way to how your bowels move during digestion (silly I know, but it happens). If you notice the latter happening, it doesn’t mean that you are paranoid. Rather, it might be a sign that your relationship is about to crumble like feta cheese. Women always try to push you away so that they feel less ashaed when they cheat. Always be on the look out for this because it is a strong indicator that your woman is a cheat.

* Becoming A Workaholic At The Expense of Your Relationship Might Be a Sign of Cheating

One of the strongest signs of cheating is when your woman starts falling in love with her work more. During the good old days, your woman just couldn’t wait to come home and cuddle into a bundle with you as you two watched an episode of Game of Thrones. Then all of a sudden, she now seems more interested in boring data entry at the office than ever and keeps coming home late, usually glowing and with a funny walking style. I hate to be the bearer of bad news but she might be a cheat as being a workaholic out of the blue is often a strong sign of infidelity. She could be spending time with a male co-worker instead of you. If this happens in your relationship, maybe it is high time that you start considering the possibility that she is a cheat and start counting your losses.

* She Might Be Cheating If You Find Some New, Sexy Underwear Stashed Away and She Thinks You Are Being Paranoid

Ever gone through your woman’s things and bumped into some new, sexy lingerie that you’ve never seen before? Yes? Then you should start getting worried because it is a sign that she is a cheat. A woman only buys lingerie to look sexy for her man. And if she is hiding it from you, then you can bet that there is someone else eating from your cookie jar. It might be that buddy-buddy coworker who is always skulking around her during the company’s long distance “business trips” (and I use the term business trips loosely). On the flipside, there is the possibility that she was hiding the new, sexy underwear so as to surprise you during your wedding or dating anniversary that is just but a fortnight away. But then again, don’t keep your hopes up because when she does this, 9/10 times your woman is just nothing but a fully fledged cheat probably with a few years of experience. And that should scare you.

* Throwing You Off the Scent Is One of the Signs That She Is the Cheat in The Relationship

Guys might be good at throwing their girlfriends off the scent when they are suspected of cheating. But trust me, women are BETTER at playing that game. The moment your girl-cum-double agent suspects that you are onto her, she is going to compile enough falsified cheating evidence on you right before shoving the folder down your throat. Before you know it, you will be too busy choking on your explanations to follow the leads you had on her. Therefore, if she keeps on doing this to you, chances are that she is a cheat that is desperately trying to cover her tracks. You should definitely watch out for this sign, especially if she has a knack for throwing smoke bombs at you.

* Being Overly Defensive in the Relationship Is One of the Signs That She Has Graduated into A Cheat

Another one of the obvious signs of cheating is when your girl becomes overly defensive when confronted with cheating accusations. The truth of the matter is that if she is truly innocent, she will either be hurt, shocked, or surprised. But if she is a cheat, trust that she will instinctively switch to her “defense mode” because of the overwhelming guilt that comes with it. No one likes being caught and so being defensive is something that you should always look out for. You can also try staring into her eyes when confronting her. I bet she wouldn’t be comfortable making eye contact. If anything, it will only seal the deal as a significant sign that your girl is seeing someone else.

* She Might Be Cheating If She Starts Handling Her Phone Like a Top Secret Spying Gadget

People who don’t cheat have absolutely nothing to hide. So if your woman starts acting all cagey with her phone, getting all jumpy whenever you have her phone in hand, then that might be a sign that she is banging someone else. It might be that coworker, the plumber, the pizza delivery guy, or the guitarist from the shady band that plays every Wednesday at the popular bistro downtown. Sidebar – why is it always the guitarist? Okay, moving forward. If she is cheating, your woman will always keep her phone close enough, and, more often than not, you won’t ever see it. It just shows that there is something that she is hiding that will unquestionably break your heart the moment you unearth it. And what other thing would “unquestionably break your heart” if not the fact that she is banging someone else? Mm, I wonder.

* She Might Be Cheating When She Starts Looking Like a Swan When Going Out with The Girls or Her Hot Male Coworker

Any dimwit of a guy can tell the difference between his girl looking good for him and when she is dressing like she is back on the market. And since you aren’t just any dimwit of a guy, when your girl is graduating into a full-time cheat, you’ll take notice. The first sign you need to look out for is how she dresses when going out without you, especially for that girls’ night out she’s been ranting about all week long. She might get a new makeup kit, the sexy organza dress that’s trending (and hugs her figure tightly). If this happens especially when you are in a long distance relationship, it's time for you to officially hang the boots because, well, she is definitely playing you (and winning).