If you break up with someone you love or your relationship is in turmoil, there are certain things that you can do to ensure that you are falling back in love with your ex. Here are some tips you can use to fall in love twice and make your relationship even stronger.
# Planning for the future can make you fall back in love
If you were together at some point and want to fall in love again, then you have absolutely nothing to worry about because it is possible. As long as you were once happy, then it would be a very easy thing to do. First of all, if you keep making plans together even when you are separated, it can proceed to make sure that you are having some rekindling of the good old days. And since we are all wired to looking forward to reminiscing, chances are that you will end up falling in love once again which is more or less an amazing sensation. If you want to fall back in love with your ex, it would be a brilliant idea to invite him or her to the place that you had your first date or made out for the first time. Doing so will rekindle your fire and in the end, make sure that you are having a ball. The catch is to not try and force things because it has to come to you as naturally as possible.
# Compromising will make you fall back in loveHave you ever heard the dictum about a relationship being a two-way traffic? If you did and couldn’t understand what that meant, then I will explain it to you. That phrase simply means that you have to make a compromise just to show you care. For instance, if your partner loves hitting the gym and has been trying to so hard to smash a certain record, you can make sure you are going up there with him or her. And even if you will not be in a position to give them a ran for their money, it will be an amazing move that might just give the right amount of spark back to your relationship which is always amazing. So, if your relationship is in a place where it has its fair share of problems, then you have nothing to worry about. All you need to do in order to fall back in love with your beau is to compromise. Find out their hobby and offer to try it out with them and you will not regret it even for a second.
# Surprise your beau and get him/her backContrary to common belief, men also love being surprised just as much as women. So, if your relationship is headed for the rocks and you really want to salvage it, then it would be a good idea for you to try harder and get your partner a surprise. The surprise might be random or it might be as a reason of something which shouldn’t be that hard for you to figure out. It would be easy for you to fall in love twice with your ex if you do this right. You can get your partner or ex a watch, a skipping rope if they are trying to lose weight or a good book especially if they are into reading or writing. And that leads me to my point which is rather crucial. You will be required to make sure that your surprise is thoughtful. At the end of the day, people will always love those who think about them, which is why your gift as to be thoughtful.
# Nice, random dates can bring you back togetherAs earlier stated, dredging up the good memories can work wonders especially if you and your beau/ex want to get back together. It is these memories that will help you to love again and these romantic dates will play a very good role when it comes to doing this. You can either take your beau to the amazing places you used to visit during the better days or you can decide to get all creative and come up with something that will give you something to smile about. So, without further ado, always make sure that you are coming up with nice places to take your “person of interest” and then from there, everything should go down accordingly. And even if it doesn’t work and the two of you don’t end up falling for each other, you will still have a good time and that will be very important especially when it comes to moving on with your life.
# Sex makes people fall back in loveSex is an amazing tool that can help your relationship go to the next level. More often than not, the problems in relationships can be fixed with some good, steamy sex. So, if you and your beau or ex, are having a problem, you should try and make sure that you are having a conversation about the sex. Or even better, you can just surprise your partner by giving them that mindboggling sex that they have been missing during the entire relationship. And if you do that well, then you will only need to kick back and watch as they helplessly fall back in love with you. But remember that once you have the privilege to be with them, you will have no other choice but to do them right because it’s not a good thing to play with peoples’ feelings. Do that and they will not only fall back in love with you, they will fall in love and stay for good.
# Fall back in love by rekindling good memoriesSo how can you rekindle the good memories? Well, it’s easy. All you need to do is try and do things that you use to back in the early days of your relationship. And if you get to do this the right way, then you will be in a position to remember just how happy you are and that is what makes an ex, fall in love twice. Did you go out jogging together during the happy days? Then why won’t you try doing that once again and see your relationship thriving all over again? Or even better, how about you just sit tight and start cooking together. Or you can go swimming because believe you me that if doing the things that used to make you happy then, they sure as hell will make you happy now. Try doing so and witness your growing love again with your ex. And for the umpteenth time, if you get them back for a second time, try not to repeat the same mistakes twice.
# Fall back in love through talkingThe second most important aspect of the relationship after mindboggling sex is talking. If you keep talking about your feelings, then it would be easy for your partner or beau to avoid doing things that will piss you off again. And if your partner doesn’t do things that end up pissing you off, you will always find that falling back in love will be easy. And apart from just talking about feelings, always try and open up about your feelings. That way, you can get an apology or apologize when you offend your partner because, well, let’s be honest - no one is perfect. And still, on that apology tip, you need to learn how to swallow your ego when it comes to your relationship. You have to apologize and be conscious of the mistakes you made and you get to do that through talking. And with your pride out of the way, it would be much easier for the two of you to fall back in love.
# Adapt a brand-new and fun hobbyRelationships that are boring are always bound to collapse and crumble like feta cheese. That said, you will always be required to reinvent yourself so that it doesn’t get boring at any given moment. For instance, if you get to that point where you think swimming is getting a little boring and monotonous, then it would do you some good to take up a spray painting class together. And it is having such kind of unpredictability that will make your partner eager to make up and fall in love you with the ex - (that’s you) in a jiffy. And if you are smart enough (which I know you are), you shouldn’t wait until the relationship hits rock bottom before you start reinventing yourself. It is something that you can start as soon as you are done reading this and enjoy every aspect of watching your relationship spark up once again.
# Doing things together will make you fall back in love
Teamwork has always made people in love be close and get used to doing things together. So, if you and your ex are trying to fall back in love, then try to find new things that you haven’t done in the past and then try doing them together. Personally, my girlfriend and I always enjoy cooking together and washing the dishes together because it is fun to do it. And if doing things together is fun, then trust me when I tell you that it would be ten times easier to fall back in love even after a snafu – which is part of any good relationship. Try hitting the gym together or try taking up some jujitsu classes so that you can start your own ninja turtle fun club. Trust me, the sillier the things you do together, the better because it takes a couple of years off you and makes you feel younger.
# Travel togetherIf you want to love again, especially with that special someone that you used to be together with, then you should try traveling together because, well, it works magic. Nothing renews a commitment than checking out other places with a fresh pair of eyes. It has that magical way of opening your eyes to the good things you had been ignoring in your ex and it’s possible that the two of you can love again. So, if you want your ex, try traveling together and you might end up falling in love, twice.