Mental Health has become far more recognized and talked about in recent years. This positive change has led us to become more comfortable with discussing issues related to mental health and seeking out treatments and therapies for ourselves and our loved ones.
As we age, our mental health needs also change. Aging brings with it a new phase of life with its own unique challenges and trials. That can often lead us to feel burdened, stressed and at times helpless. As many as 1 in 5 elderly have mental health concerns that are serious enough to require intervention. Many elderly need assistance and support in coping. However, there is always help available. Seeking the right help at the right time can make a world of a difference in ensuring future comfort.There is a lot that you can do to maintain your mental health and well being. It is essential to prioritize your mental health along with your physical health. Our physical health affects our mental well being and vice versa.
Here are some tips for maintaining a good mental health:
Eat WellEating right can help maintain positive mental health. Healthy wholegrains, fruits and vegetables, pulses are the way to go. Sugary foods give you a sugar rush and subsequently you feel tired and low when the sugar rush subsides. With healthier foods, the food is absorbed slowly and thus there are no mood swings.
Get Enough SleepGood sleep is very important, especially for older adults as their sleep needs change. As with age, we become lighter sleepers, we need longer duration of sleep to get adequate rest. Sleep improves concentration, memory formation, and restores any cell damage; overall refreshing the body’s immune system.
Exercising regularlyExercise is known to improve mood and emotional well-being. It thereby prevents mental health issues. The double bonus is that it improved your overall physical health as well.
Maintaining RelationshipsGood relationships are the backbone of good mental health. It is often considered the most important contributor to happiness and wellbeing. Be it family, friends, colleagues or neighbours, our relationships provide us a support system that not only helps us cope with stressors but also provides a support in time of need for intervention. Sharing our feelings with others is a proven method of de-stressing.
Take out time for enjoyable and relaxing activitiesAn overlooked part in our culture is the importance of hobbies. Fun hobbies such as a sport, an art class, gardening, etc can become a source of contentment and satisfaction. With time on our hands as we age, identifying such activities and making an effort to engage in them can turn our day of loneliness into a day of enjoyment.
Spirituality or religionMany elderly find themselves turning more and more to religion as they age. This can also give opportunities for socialisation and interaction with others in the community as times of satsangs and poojas. Being involved in spiritual or religious practices has been linked with improved wellbeing for many people.
Turn to Technology to Stay in TouchSending emails, messages, photos to friends and family can be a regular part of an elderly’s routine. Staying in touch on social media sites such as Facebook can also prevent social isolation for elderly, especially when their children live far, or in a different country.
Create flowFlow is a unique state of being, in which the person is so engrossed in activity of interest that they feel a sense of contentment and can spend more and more time in the activity. When the level of challenge in the activity feel right (not too easy & not too difficult), it leads to a better sense of contentment. A person can reach the state of flow during any activity for example badminton, gardening, painting, and chess.
Develop gratitudeGratitude is a well established method of boosting positivity and increasing our levels of happiness. This can be done by keeping track of all the things that we feels blessed to have. It starts at acknoledging all the little things we feel lucky to have. You can a keep a gratitude journal, or a gratitude jar (in which you put chits for what makes you happy everyday) to remind yourself to feel gratitude on a regular basis.
Give to othersPerforming small acts of kindness can give us a feeling of happiness and self-worth. It helps cancel out negative feelings about ourselves and leads to a feeling of contentment. You can engage yourself in the community, donate to a cause you believe in or volunteer at an NGO. It will not only be a service to the society, but will also be a rewarding engagement.
Go Back to SchoolKeeping our brain challenged in essential for mental health. As we age, our brain ages as well. Retirement also is time when we have the time to pick up topics of interest to study that we may not have had time for earlier. It could be a computer class, a new language, pottery, etc. that will keep you busy and learning.