Many times in a relationship it happens that your lover or partner starts hiding some things from you. This hiding goes on a bit, but being so much means that your partner is cheating on you. In such a situation you can find out by observing his behavior. Such as his repeated lying also indicates this. You are aware of many similar signs:
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. More attentive to your needs than usual.This is due to the guilt feelings experienced by the cheater in the early stages of the affair. The attention will diminish as the affair continues.
2. Buys you gifts — lots of gifts.These are guilt gifts purchased because your partner feels guilty about betraying you and showering you with presents makes him or her feel better.
3. Behavior that leaves you with the gut feeling that something isn't right.If this happens, pay attention to your instincts. Ignoring them means you want to blind yourself to the truth. You know your mate's habits, routines and attitudes better than anybody, so be suspicious when these things change.
4. Frequently picks fights with you.Doing this provides a reason to get mad and storm out of the house and thus the opportunity to meet a lover. A cheater may also do this because of mixed emotions he is feeling about betraying you.
5. Constantly talks about your relationship ending when you fight or argue.
In general, your partner seems very negative about your relationship and says things like, What would you do if our relationship ended? or If anything ever happened to us, I would always love you like a friend. These statements may be a sign he or she has a lover to fall back on if your relationship ends. If your partner repeats these kinds of statements often, be suspicious.
6. Becomes very moody.
He or she seems very upbeat and excited when leaving you, but acts somber and depressed when around you. If your mate is in a long-term affair, he or she will try to keep both relationships running smoothly. Any problems the cheater has in one relationship can spill over into the other relationship, as well. This is inevitable.
7. Never talks to you.
You live together but don't interact. He has become cold and inconsiderate of your feelings.
8. Sudden changes music taste.For instance, she always listened to pop music but suddenly starts listening to country music. Your partner might be listening to and growing fond of this new type of music because her lover listens to it.
9. Lacks self-esteem.This doesn't necessarily mean he will go out and have an affair, but an insecure individual often looks to others for guidance. If an insecure person's needs aren't being met, he might find the desired feelings of security and positive feedback in an affair with someone else.
10. Continually criticizes another person.He or she is trying to make you think that type of individual would never be of interest, although there actually exists a secret attraction.