Reasons Why a Man is Texting You Even If He is Not Interested

You're going insane wondering, why is he texting me if he's not interested. Just because he texts you doesn't mean he wants you.

Oh, girls, I could write a book about the topic, why is he texting me if he's not interested. When it came to dating, this was one of my most common issues. I would have amazing conversations with guys, but nothing would happen.

I would literally wait for weeks for them to ask me out, and it would never happen. So, instead, I made the first move, thinking they were scared. In reality, they had no interest in dating me.

And the excuses were endless; I don't know what I want, I'm not ready to date, I thought we were just friends. So, all the time I invested into the relationship went down the drain.

The worst part was no one told me these guys weren't interested in me. Not one person. Everyone would say that the guy was weird or maybe he's shy, but the truth was he didnít want me. It hurt to accept that truth, but on the other hand, I was able to cut guys out of my life quickly and move onto the next.

If a guy is texting you but saying he ís not interested in you, move on. It can be hard to do when you don't feel closure. So, here are the 15 reasons he's texting you if he's not interested. It's time to move on and find someone who's really into you. It's time you learned the truth.

He needs an ego boost

There are some days when you need validation, so you text someone who you know is into you. You make him feel good and look good in front of other people, so heís happy to have you around. Does he want to be with you? No, he doesn't. You're a souvenir for him.

* You're in the friend-zone

You're in the friend-zone. I'm sorry you made it there, but it happens to the best of us. He's super comfortable texting and talking to you on the phone, which gives you the idea that he's into you. But, that's where you're wrong. He's not, you're his friend.

* You're his #2

He likes you, but he doesn't like you that much. If he did, he would have locked it down and asked you to date him. But he hasn't, right? Right. He'll take you out here and there, text you to keep you interested, but he has someone else on his mind. You're his #2 not his #1.

* He ís a player

Ugh, another player. When will the madness end? Some men are experts at stringing women along and playing mind games with them. This doesn't mean he's not into you, but he ís definitely taking his time and has other women on his plate as well. So, he's keeping you warm in case his other plans don't work out.

* You're a booty call

You may have thought you share something special, but for him, you're his booty call. If he ignores most of your texts but will reply late at night or text you past 10 pm, then you're his booty call. Also, pay attention to what he talks about. Are all your conversations sexual? There ya go.

* He ís not sure what he wants

This happens a lot. When a guy is indecisive, he'll drive you nuts. You'll constantly be asking yourself whether he likes you or not, and that's when you know he doesn't know what he wants. If you're confused, then he ís confused. It ís that simple. This is also a good sign for you to end things while you're ahead.

* You're day-dreaming

This happens to the best of us. While the guy isn't interested in us, we're taking all our conversations with them and tearing them apart, looking for clues and hints that he's interested. Listen, step out of your conversations, and show them to someone you trust. Let them help you get back into reality.

* He likes the attention you give him

He is only human. If an attractive girl is giving him attention, he is not going to want it to stop. He likes the conversations you have together and the attention he gets. If you flirt and compliment him, that's enough to keep him going. It's always nice when someone gives you attention and doesn't ask for anything in return.

* He is bored. What can I say?

I think we've all been in that position when we text someone because we're bored. If he is not texting you consistently, but only when he is bored at work, well, you're the one helping him get through a slow period. In other words, you're a filler until something better comes along.

* He has a flirty personality

Some guys are flirtatious by nature. Your conversations may be cheeky and flirty, but he is not interested in anything serious. He knows when he texts you, it's going to be playful and light, which is why he texts you. You give him a sense of relief during his busy day.

* He is feeling lonely

Everyone gets a little lonely, and when that happens, they usually turn to people who give them attention. Well, you're one of those people for him. When he is feeling a little down, he sends you a text and knows you'll reply. He is not interested in you; instead, he wants to fill the void.

* He enjoys talking to you

You're funny and have a great personality, so why wouldn't he want to talk to you? He enjoys the conversations but isn't interested in progressing things. He is happy texting you, sharing a couple of laughs, and going on with his day.

* He is newly single

Newly single men walk into unknown territory. They haven't been single in a while, and now, they're flooded with new women. If he ís just out of a relationship, donít take his words seriously. He is probably not ready for a commitment but wants to play the field. This is why he is texting you even though he is not making a move.

* He ís just being nice

Have you ever looked at your conversations? Who initiates the texts? If you start the conversations, he could be texting you back just to be nice. It is easy to get carried away in your head and think he is the one texting you. Plus, one-worded replies aren't really texts.

* Ask him what's going on

At the end of the day, if you're still not sure why he keeps texting you if he says he ís not interested, ask him. It is time you put him on the spot and lit a flame under his butt. He needs to know that you're aware of his behavior and you're not having any of it.