Sometimes, it's not worth the investment of your time and energy to pursue a committed relationship with someone you’re dating. You need to be ready to transition from casual dating to a serious relationship. While it’s easy to hope that everything will remain the same or improve, this can often lead to unrealistic expectations.
Ideally, dating someone should be smooth and enjoyable, but reality dictates that things will change and you must be willing to put effort into the relationship.
Think of it like this: a lottery player needs to buy a ticket to have a chance at winning the jackpot. Similarly, moving from dating to a relationship demands your dedication, effort, and energy. You’ll need to collaborate, and at times, be your own advisor, best friend, and fortune teller.
# No Awkward SilencesThis may seem overrated, but it’s true. When you find someone who makes every conversation enjoyable, it’s a positive indicator. Silence between you feels comfortable rather than awkward.
# You Make Each Other Laugh by Being YourselvesThis shows that you’re both comfortable being authentic. It means you share a compatible sense of humor and can bring joy to each other naturally.
# There’s Genuine Interest from Both SidesIt may seem obvious, but many forget what genuine interest feels like after a while of casual dating. When you’re truly interested, you’re past the phase of polite disinterest and actually eager to spend time together.
# You Always Plan Another DateIf you consistently plan another date after each one, it’s a sign of moving towards a relationship. Regular scheduling shows a mutual desire to spend more time together, despite busy lives.
# Comfort Surpasses the ButterfliesIf you feel a strange comfort together, even with initial nerves, that’s a good sign. This deeper comfort indicates a potential connection beyond just friendship.
# Phones Don’t ExistIn today’s world, setting aside your phone to focus on each other is a huge compliment. It shows that you find each other more engaging than any distractions.
# More Interested in Each Other Than Anything ElseWhen you’re more interested in each other than your surroundings, it’s a sign you’ve found the right person. You might be oblivious to everything else or enjoying the world together, eager to move from dating to a relationship.
# Flirting is Obvious but RespectfulFlirting should be natural and build up gradually. If it starts innocently and develops into a deeper connection, it’s a sign of long-term interest. Rapidly sexual flirting might indicate a lack of genuine relationship intent.
# Body Language Reflects Comfort and AttractionBody language evolves from cautious to more relaxed and affectionate. When you naturally gravitate towards each other, it indicates a deeper investment beyond just physical attraction.
# Everyone Around You Gets AwkwardWhen others start feeling awkward around you due to your obvious attraction, it’s a great sign. Whether you find a private corner or share a first public kiss, this tension often makes bystanders uncomfortable.
# You Have Solid CommunicationGood communication is rare but crucial. If you can talk about anything, solve problems together, and understand each other’s perspectives, you’re likely heading towards a healthy relationship.