If you really want to leave someone wanting more of you, it’ll be in the way you kiss. Now, it might sound shallow that someone could judge you based on the way you kiss but humans can be shallow creatures at times. Which means knowing how to kiss someone the right way can really help get your foot in the door.
People like to feel like you have a connection. And yes, the connection SHOULD be emotional when determining whether or not you want someone to be your partner, but we’ve somehow learned that it’s physical. At least at first, it is.
* Make sure they want itYou can’t just go around kissing someone without making sure they actually want to. Assuming they do just because they’ve been nice and even flirting doesn’t mean they really want your lips on theirs.
* Initiate physical contact beforehandDon’t let the first time you even touch them to be a kiss. That’s not the way it should work. You have to be sure they’re comfortable with your touches first. If they’re not, then kissing is the wrong thing to do.
* Start with lots of eye contactLooking someone in the eye is a very initiate move, especially when you hold that eye contact. This is a way to get their attention and make sure they see your intentions.
* Set the moodYou want to make sure the mood is right for a kiss first. That can mean actually moving to a more secluded, intimate room when you’re with other people, or just stepping closer to close the gap.
* Make them laughThe more they laugh, the more they like you. And the more they like you, the better the kiss will feel on their end. Even if it’s not that good, having that emotional connection and having their attraction will make it seem even better.
* Gradually move closerNow’s time to gear up for that kiss by moving in closer. Do this slowly. The goal is to not even let them realize you’re doing it. They shouldn’t be alarmed that you’ve suddenly stepped up right next to them.
* Read their body language correctlyAfter you’ve moved in, you should wait and read their body language. Are they leaning away from you and not even facing your direction? If so, they don’t want a kiss and you may have moved too fast.
* Move slow as you lean inIf you’re going in for the kiss, don’t make the mistake of trying to be hard and passionate. Those kisses should be reserved for romantic comedies – not for your very first kiss with someone new.
* Make it soft and sweetAgain, don’t try to force your face against theirs. Instead, just keep it soft and sweet. It’s not about seeing how much you can kiss them, it’s about making that single kiss say more than you can with words.
* Let them make the next moveWhen you kiss them softly and pull away after a really gentle kiss, they’ll want more. But you should let them go in for the next move. Don’t be the first to kiss again because you want to make sure they want it just as much. If you’ve played your cards right, they do.