8 Ways Men Can Look Good in Bed

Men share equal concerns about appearing attractive, though many would sooner consume their own underwear than openly acknowledge it. Fundamental to sexual relationships is the aspect of physical appearance. It's not about conforming to society's predefined standards of attractiveness; rather, it's about gaining approval from oneself and one's partner.

In the realm of sexuality, specific traits can elicit greater arousal for different individuals. Preferences may vary, with some placing more importance on breasts over buttocks, while others focus on body types.

For men, the scenario is similar. Some invest significant time and resources to emulate Greek statuesque looks, while others contentedly maintain their dad bods. The reason for this disparity? It's simply the way people are wired— not everyone desires a Ryan Gosling.

Strength? Wealth? Toned physique? Not necessarily. When it comes to intangible qualities, confidence stands out as the most appealing feature in a man. Employing confidence in the bedroom ensures you won't struggle to present yourself as irresistibly attractive.

However, certain considerations are essential to sustain sex appeal. Understanding your partner's preferences allows you to adapt and meet their standards. If you're unsure, here are some tips that could prove helpful.

# Conduct a survey

If you're uncertain about what works, why not ask? It's not about completely altering your appearance to fit your partner's preferences. There are simple things, like grooming—whether it involves shaving, trimming, or waxing—that can enhance your look without going to extremes. Additionally, you can inquire about your partner's underwear preferences or interest in using costumes.

# Use soap

Basic hygiene is crucial for human contact. If you anticipate physical intimacy, taking a shower is a small but significant request. Nobody finds you attractive if you smell or appear as though you just emerged from a dust storm. Even if you're reasonably clean, the freshly-showered appearance is one of the most appealing pre-sex looks.

# Buy new underwear

While not mandatory, it can be beneficial. Your partner has likely seen your entire underwear collection—typical for many guys. Having five of everything usually suffices. If your partner notices that you made an effort to buy something new for your bedroom encounter, they will likely reward you with a compliment, or perhaps more.

# Make sure it fits

The debate between tighty whities and boxers persists, but it's more about what works for you. Even larger individuals can wear tighty whities and exude sexiness. It's about your self-presentation and ensuring your clothing fits. Too loose may appear immature, while too tight may leave nothing to the imagination.

# Trim, shave, or wax

The aesthetics of pubic hair are subjective, and personal comfort matters. Whether you trim, shave, or wax, it's essential to align with your preferences and those of your partner. If there's a difference in opinions, discuss and find common ground.

# Moisturize

This can't be emphasized enough. Lotion isn't solely for your genitals. Regular moisturizing not only leads to smoother skin but also enhances the pleasure of cuddling due to your partner enjoying your silky skin. Supple skin is universally more attractive than rough or flaky skin, and the benefits extend beyond mere aesthetics.

# Do some push-ups

While a few push-ups won't transform your physique instantly, engaging in physical activity releases hormones that boost sex appeal. It's not about impressing your partner with your strength but about the positive effects of physical activity. The sweaty afterglow can also add an alluring touch.

# Invest in good lighting

You don't need to turn off the lights entirely; instead, consider mood lighting like a dimmer switch or a lamp with a warm glow. Such lighting is universally flattering, regardless of body type, and it enhances sexual arousal.