10 Do's And Don'ts Of Attractiveness

Attractiveness is a word that means that you are someone who is attractive to others. When you are attracted to someone or something, it means that you are drawn to them for something that they possess or exude.

There are all sorts of things that can make people attractive. In fact, many scientists have spent their entire careers trying to figure out why we find someone attractive and why we don’t. To me, it sounds like a big waste of time.

Studies show that someone is deemed attractive if their face is symmetrical because it signals the inner animal in us that a person has good genetics. Other studies have shown that we all possess natural “pheromones,” which are scents that we give off to those around us that attract them to want to mate. But, it isn’t just about sex. Being attractive is about people wanting to be around you versus not wanting to be.

The do’s of attractiveness

# Kindness

People are attracted to someone who is good on the inside and cares for others. There is something very attractive about putting others in front of yourself and stopping to do acts of good will.

People want to be around others who are kind and will help them out when they need it. Being kind is absolutely something that will add to your attractiveness all the way around.

# Empathy

Someone who is empathetic is super attractive. The ability to put yourself into someone else’s situation and not to judge attracts people to you. If you always see the good in people because you can empathize with their situation and what they are going through, people will want to be around you because you are just an easier going person than someone who is all judgmental.

# Taking care of yourself

You don’t have to be a perfect size two, have the perfect features, or have curves and definition. The key to your attractiveness is taking care of yourself like you like who you are. After all, there is something very attractive about a person who is comfortable in their own skin and takes care of themselves. It says, “I like me and you should too.”

The do’s of attractiveness

# Kindness

People are attracted to someone who is good on the inside and cares for others. There is something very attractive about putting others in front of yourself and stopping to do acts of good will.

People want to be around others who are kind and will help them out when they need it. Being kind is absolutely something that will add to your attractiveness all the way around.

# Empathy

Someone who is empathetic is super attractive. The ability to put yourself into someone else’s situation and not to judge attracts people to you. If you always see the good in people because you can empathize with their situation and what they are going through, people will want to be around you because you are just an easier going person than someone who is all judgmental.

# Taking care of yourself

You don’t have to be a perfect size two, have the perfect features, or have curves and definition. The key to your attractiveness is taking care of yourself like you like who you are. After all, there is something very attractive about a person who is comfortable in their own skin and takes care of themselves. It says, “I like me and you should too.”

The don’ts of attractiveness

# Being gross

It is not attractive at all to be gross. I suppose gross is all in the eye of the beholder, but spitting, dipping, farting whenever you feel like it, and belching without any hesitation, are all very unattractive things. If you are hot, doing those things can make you not.

# Having a foul mouth

Swearing just makes you sound ignorant and unattractive. When you talk offensively or have a foul mouth, you make people around you uncomfortable, which doesn’t attract people to you. There is a time for locker room talk, namely, in the locker room. Save the cuss words for guys’ or girls’ night, not when you are out in the general public.

# Smoking

Yep, if you see a hot girl or guy and they start to light up, you can instantly lose attraction for them. Smoking is not attractive for almost the entire population, it does not make you look cool, and it smells bad. Those are all not things that scream attractiveness.

# Poor self-grooming

If you can’t take a shower before you hit the club, you can have the best body in the world, but no one will know because they won’t want to be close to you. If you don’t do the basics to make yourself smell better than a farm animal, that is so not attractive!

# Rudeness

If you are rude and don’t care about other people’s feelings, that is a huge turnoff. People who treat the wait staff like their own personal slaves, are non-appreciative, or just feel like everyone was put on earth to serve them, are unattractive – period. It is just purely ugly to be ugly to people.