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10 Most Accurate Signs You Have Met Your Soulmate
By: Kratika Tue, 14 June 2022 1:59:16
When you feel like you’ve met “the one,” it’s still hard to be entirely sure. So what are the soulmate signs that show you’ve met the love of your life?
Whether you believe in soulmates or not, it’s what we’re all looking for at heart, isn’t it? Your perfect match, your other self – your soulmate. The one who can read you like a book even when you’re sealed shut.
We hear about this kind of match-up all the time in songs and cinema, two souls who are meant to be together in life and in love and who often, against all the odds, are led by fate to find each other.
But we meet people all the time who we’re romantically interested in, and we never enter a relationship thinking that the other person is definitely NOT the one we’re meant to be with. So how are we supposed to know? What giveaway signs might show us that this person is indeed our soulmate and life love.
# You feel like you’ve been together forever
You could have known them for months, weeks, or even just days. But at some deep down subconscious level you feel like you’ve known them all your life and beyond. A surefire sign that you’ve finally found the person that you’re meant to be with.
# You’re always talking about them
Now there are two aspects to this. At the beginning of the relationship, you can’t stop talking about them to anyone and everyone. A sign that they’ve entered your mind and heart so pervasively that you struggle to find any other comparison quite so pleasingly perfect. You just can’t stop thinking of them.
And then, a few months into the relationship, you see a sudden shift. You think about them all the time, they’re constantly in your thoughts. But it’s not obsessive, and you don’t see the need to talk about them with others.
You feel a calm sense of euphoria about being in a relationship with them. And you see no need or reason to talk about your relationship with others. You’re blissfully happy, and someone else’s opinions or their feedback makes no difference to you.
You have no second thoughts, no need for validation, or proof to their love for you.
# Sparks fly
You can’t really put your finger on it, but every time you’re near each other, there’s an energy in the air that’s almost visible. Even the slightest touch sends jolts of chemical electricity jarring through your body. A definite sign that you’ve found your soulmate.
# You can tell them anything
You are entirely happy confiding in your partner, and things that you would hesitate tell your best friend just come rolling effortlessly off your tongue. Another telling soulmate sign that you’ve found the one.
# Earlier partners fade away
It’s funny how we can go through life entirely satisfied with our partners, or at least mostly satisfied, but things never quite seem to work out. Then we meet this amazing person, and all those relationships we had before, that seemed great at the time, are revealed by comparison for how entirely uninspiring and pedestrian they actually were.
# You want to be better for them
Do you find yourself wanting to be a better person for your significant other, preferring to lose your bad habits and negative personality traits in order to avoid losing your love? If so then you could have found that person with whom you were truly meant to be.
# You trust each other
Trust is the cornerstone of all true relationships and having that in a relationship from day one, without having to be worked at in any way, is another soulmate sign.
# You’re great friends
Your lives fit together so effortlessly and in such a complementary fashion and as much as the sparks fly, and your hearts lift every time you see each other, you are also each other’s best friend.
# Shared principles
You can work at compromising on your principles, but vastly differing approaches to the manner in which you both choose to live can be really quite destructive, unlike soulmates whose ethics and morals always seem to align so closely.
# A shared vision
Likewise, if you both have dynamically opposed perceptions of where you both want to be in ten years’ time – perceptions that are unlikely to compromise without at least a small element of resentment. Soulmates tend to have their eyes set at the same point on the horizon.