10 Must Known Signs Your Hook Up Has Feelings For You

You wanted something casual without any strings. But you're starting to see signs your hook up has feelings for you. How do you know what they want?

Everyone always asks me how they can maintain a causal relationship with someone. My best advice is to learn the signs your hook up has feelings for you. If you can head it off early, it is easier for both. But, it's not easy. Sure, movies make it seem like you can keep it casual and have mind blowing sex, but it doesn't usually work out like that. In reality, someone ends up developing feelings.

I've been in a casual relationship where I ended up falling hard for the guy. Of course, I made the mistake by sticking in the relationship and hurting myself in the end. When you're in the moment, it's not always easy to take a step back and do what's right for you. But you're not in that position. You're the one who has the power.

# You two text a lot

When it's casual, you would only text your partner to plan a hookup. But you are texting a lot. If you can't stop texting them, maybe you should take a closer look at how you feel. But if they're texting you non-stop, it's a clear sign that they're developing feelings for you.

# They call you

Texting is one thing, but they take it a step further by calling you. Nowadays, people won't answer their phones, let alone call people. But for them, they have no problem giving you a call. That's because they feel very comfortable around you.

# They sleepover

If you have a casual hookup, sleeping over should be one thing you never do. Once you two have sleepovers, the odds of someone catching feelings increase. If they sleepover after every night, they like you.

# You've met their friends

There are some situations where you accidentally meet their friends, and in those cases, it's okay. But if they've purposely introduced you to their friends, there's a reason why. No one gets their friends involved in a hookup. They only do this if they like you and want their friend's opinion.

# They're nervous

Before, they were very calm and cool around you. But now, you notice that their behavior has changed. They become nervous and anxious around you. And there's a simple reason why they're acting like this: they like you.

# They take you out on dates

Hookup buddies never go on dates. Come on, you know this. If you are going on dinner dates and couple activities, well, someone is catching feelings. The only people who go on dates are those who are dating.

# They do small things for you

Though you may not be paying attention to the little things they do for you, you should be. Whether it's bringing you takeout or driving you somewhere, those little details show they care for you and want to make you happy.

# They're jealous

You may have mentioned someone else of interest, and instead of acting happy, they became jealous. Hello! Why would they become jealous if it was only a hookup? You know the answer. No one is jealous without reason, they like you.

# They remember the details

When someone doesn't care about you, they don't invest their attention in what you say to them. They only pay attention to things that benefit themselves. But if someone has feelings for you, they'll remember the small details. That's because they're listening to you, and it's one of the really strong signs your hook up has feelings for you.

# They show PDA

No hookup couples are going to show PDA. Why would you? First of all, you don't go out in public, and second, you aren't a couple. Right? Well, if they're packing on the PDA with you, they like you a lot. They don't mind showing people they're into you.