10 Signs Your Man Doesnt Love You Anymore

You are truly in love with your boyfriend. But, there is something that is making you suspicious that he doesnít love you back and that he isnít really in love with you anymore. How do you really know if he doesnít love you anymore? This can be hard, especially when you donít know what to look for when you suspect that your boyfriend doesnít feel the same anymore. You need to know these 10 signs in order to know for sure if he doesnít love you anymore, or if you are just insecure and that you might have gotten something wrong about your suspicion that he might not love you anymore.

# A common sign is that he canít say that he loves you anymore

The first and most common sign that he doesnít love you anymore is if he canít say that. He might be saying something like ìI like you very much, but not in love with you.î Or, he would say something like: ìI love you, but as a brother loves his sister.î These are the most obvious reasons that he doesnít love you anymore. However, there are also some other signs like when you are saying that you love him and he doesn't respond or make if he didnít hear you. Or, even worse, he is just changing the subject. This might be cruel, but this is the most common signs that your boyfriend isnít in love with you anymore, and that he even might have someone else that he loves a lot more. You shouldnít force your boyfriend to say that he loves you. He needs to mean it before he can say it. And, if he doesnít love you, you shouldnít stay with him. Even if you love him. He should also not tell you that you know that he loves you. He should be able to say the words ìI love youî and mean every word to believe that he is really telling the truth.

# He isnít listening when you are telling him something

You are telling him what happens to you today or talking about something that was bothering you during the day. After talking for a while, you realize that he is playing on his phone, or just watching television and it is obvious that he isn't really listening to you. And, if you are asking him if he listened to you, he replies that he did listen. But, if you are asking him what you should do about the situation, he looks confused. When this happens, you need to know that he doesnít love you anymore and that he doesnít care enough to listen to your needs or problems that you might have. You should just make sure that you donít confuse between not listening and not hearing you properly. Especially, when he is watching something on television.

# He compares you to other women

This is something that no woman wants. That your boyfriend is comparing you to other women. He is saying that he wishes that you could cook like another woman, or that you could dress like other women. If he starts to compare you to other women in general, you need to know that there is something seriously wrong with the relationship. He is irritated by the way you are doing things, because he doesnít love you enough, anymore. You are a person with your own preferences, and there isnít any reason to be compared with other women. And, when this happens you need to know that love isnít in your relationship anymore, and you donít need to take the humiliation to be compared.

# Signs is that he is avoiding physical contact with you

Women like to be touched and getting a hug or two from the man she loves. However, there might come a time when your boyfriend is avoiding physical contact with you. He isnít holding your hand anymore when you are going out, or he is just saying goodnight without giving you the normal kiss. Or, he isn't holding your hand when you are among his friends, and he normally did. Something that all women know, is that man likes touching their woman and holding her hand when they are going out. This is to say to the other guys that she is taken. If this is something that he did do before, and suddenly he isnít doing anymore, then you need to know that he doesnít love you any more or the way he should. This is normally the first sign that this relationship is doomed. You need to talk to him about it and see what he is responding. He might indicate that he isnít sure about the relationship anymore.

# Your boyfriend doesnít come to visit you much often

Every night after work, your boyfriend made a point to come and visit you. Sometimes he also brings dinner and a movie with him. However, this is getting more and more common that he doesnít come to your home as much anymore. And, when you are phoning him about why he isnít coming over, his response is that he is busy or that he is really tired. Yes, maybe he is really tired, especially if he changed work. However, if he doesnít have any reason not to come over, you need to realize that he is trying to tell you something by staying away. The best way to get answers is to talk to him and to make sure that you know if he still loves you or not. You need to make sure that you are not just getting lame excuses on why he isn't coming to visit you and taking you out as much anymore.

# He doesnít love you anymore when he doesnít trust you

You didnít give your boyfriend any reason not to trust you. You didnít cheat on him, ever, and you didnít lie to him before. But, you are getting the feeling that he is really not trusting you anymore. He is wondering all the time if you are doing that can ruin your relationship. Normally when someone canít trust one that didnít give them reasons, might mean that there is something seriously wrong in the relationship. If your boyfriend doesnít trust you, it might be because he is the one that canít be trusted. Love and trust are going hand in hand. The one canít go without the other. So, if trust isnít there anymore, love might also not be there anymore.

# Your boyfriend is telling you that he needs space

This is another sign that your boyfriend isnít in love with you anymore. He is asking you for some space. What space, because he isnít there as much anymore? Maybe he isnít in love with you and he wants to get out of your way so that he can go on with his life, without you. The moment that a boyfriend is asking you for some space, you need to see the warning lights that there is something seriously wrong with your relationship. And, that the reason might be that he wants to get out of the relationship because he doesnít love you anymore. Donít stay with him when he just needs to have some space.

# Signs that He isnít in love with you anymore and keeping secrets from you

It can be obvious when he isnít in love with you anymore. Not only are you seeing that he is keeping secrets from you, but he is lying about it when you are talking to him about the secrets he is keeping from you. Secrets are the start of a broken relationship and if you know for a fact that he is keeping secrets from you and lying about it, it might be a sign that his love gone out of his heart. That he even might have someone else in his heart now and doesnít want to tell you what it is. Secrets are something that can be ruining any type of relationship because trust is broken and hearts are sore. If he canít answer you straight when you suspect that he has a secret, then you need to make sure if he is still in love with you and interested in this relationship. You donít keep a secret from the one you love.

# Signs that Your boyfriend is trying to change who you are

You are who you are, and there isnít any reason why anyone should want to change you. Especially the one you love and that is supposed to love you for who you are. He was satisfied with the real you, when you just first met and when you first started dating. This was because he was in love with you and was loving you deeply. Now, that is starting to change, he is trying to change you so that he can try to love you again. This isnít right and you should not even consider changing for anyone. Even not for the one that you love. You should be proud of who you are and he should love you just the way you are. This isnít a healthy relationship when he is trying to change you and make you into something that you arenít and that might cause you to be unhappy. You deserve better and he is for sure not in love with you anymore.

# Important signs when he is putting you down and criticize everything

This is the last sign, but also the sign that is going to be the most hurtful. There are so many relationships where the boyfriend is criticizing everything that this girl is doing. And, that he is putting her down. Not just when they are in private, but also in public and with friends. He isnít in love with you and might not like you anymore. And, therefore he is trying to get you to leave him so that he isnít going to be the bad guy in the relationship. Donít let anyone put you down or even criticize everything that you are doing. He might not love you anymore and everything that you are doing is irritating him. This isnít you, it is his problem and you can leave him without any hesitance.