10 Things To Do Before Getting Married

So, you’ve found the love of your life and want to settle down but are you truly ready to do so? Marriage is a huge commitment and not something you can backtrack from. Or are you single, ready to mingle, and want to do everything before taking the plunge?

Whether you are single or in a stable relationship, there is no denying that deciding to get married is a big decision. It will change every aspect of your life, so it is best to get certain things out of the way before taking the step to everlasting commitment.

The last thing you want is to be married before living out your single life to the fullest. As lonely as singledom can be, it can also be the best time of your life. You have no strings attached, no one to answer to, no one to think of but yourself, and no reason to worry too much about the future.

Even if you have already found your one true love, there is no reason why you cannot experience whatever you need to before signing on the dotted line. Sure, you may have to opt out of some of the options below, but there are still a myriad of things that you can do.

# Have loads of sex

You can’t learn the art of sexual pleasure by reading books or watching porn. Like most other things in life, experience is what makes a master and sex is no different. The more you do it, and with a varied number of people, the more you will learn. Life will only get better the more sex you have. Just a reminder, though: don’t be foolish and be sure to practice safe sex.

# Experiment sexually

Playing around will give you the chance to learn what turns you on. For example, you won’t know if you like rimming until you actually try it for yourself. You won’t know if you like S&M until you actually do it. You won’t know if anal sex is your thing until you let it happen. Don’t be afraid to try it all, because walking away with a slew of sexual prowess will benefit you in the long run.

# Date a lot

Putting the sex aside, there is plenty you will learn by prolific dating. It will teach you a thing or two about what you like and don’t like. It’ll also let you know what’s out there and train you in the art of finding the perfect someone who possesses all the qualities that you find appealing in a partner.

# Meet strangers

It could be the cute guy at the tram stop or the hot MILF who lives next door, but honestly, it doesn’t matter who you strike up a conversation with, as long as you do. It’ll give you the excuse to approach life head-on, plus it’ll boost your confidence the next time you’re out on a blind date.

# Travel

As important as it is to indulge in trips with your lover, you have to travel far and wide sans your partner, too. It’s very different going on a romantic holiday and going on one where your sole goal is to soak in the culture and meet new people.

# Enjoy your friends

Once you get married, your life will no longer be all about you and will involve another person, their friends, their family, their goals, their habits, and everything else. Be sure to spend time with your support system as much as you can before tying the knot. These are the people who are going to be there for you when times get rough with your spouse, so invest in the friendships now or risk being all alone later.

# Accomplish career goals

We all know that one woman who quit her job as soon as she got married. We all know that man who switched careers, even though he didn’t want to, just so he could make more money to please his wife. Before getting married, be sure to exhaust your career goals and go as far as time, experience, and your heart will take you. Being independent is something that you have to do for yourself, so don’t put it on the back burner.

# Fall in love

Fall in love over and over again, and never be afraid to keep doing it until you meet your match. As terrible as heartbreak is, it always teaches us an unforgettable lesson that will come in handy the next time around.

# Live alone

Living solo is truly an awesome thing to do. You get the chance to determine just what your space looks and feels like. Your home is a reflection of who you are, so think of it as a blank canvas on which you can express yourself freely and without shame. You’ll also pick up some important lessons about living like an independent adult.

# Pad your account

You need to manage your finances well and still have enough set aside for a rainy day. If you can’t live independently without expecting a handout, you’re certainly not ready to get married. Although marriage is all about teamwork, you need to know that you can pull your weight and contribute to the life you want to build with your partner.