10 Tips To Kiss Someone For The First Time And Make A Great Impression

The first kiss is a big deal. Now, it’s not a deal breaker if it doesn’t go just as you planned. But it’s a good way to judge if there’s sexual chemistry between you two or not. So, understanding how to kiss someone for the first time is important and helps you to feel less nervous when that spine-tingling moment arrives.

It’s the kiss that makes you think, “do I want more of this or not?” Now, most people have had some horrible first kisses, but they often end up going really well the second or third time around. So, you shouldn’t judge everything just by the first kiss. If your partner is nervous or not feeling well, it changes everything. But, of course, you want to make the first kiss as intense and emotional as possible

# Pay attention to hygiene

Now, sometimes you don’t know the first kiss is going to happen. If you have an idea that it may happen, pay attention to what’s going on in your mouth. Take a couple minutes to brush your teeth, pop a couple breath mints, and avoid eating smelly foods such as onions or garlic. But, if you don’t prepare, don’t worry. In those cases, they probably didn’t either.

# Don’t force it

For sure, you know you want to kiss this person, but relax. Your first kiss shouldn’t be something forced, something that you planned meticulously. Your first kiss should come in a moment where you both want it, the moment when you both know it’s the right time. If you feel like it’s something you need to do, I get it, but you don’t need to push it.

# Be a little flirty

Before the kiss, give signals to show the other person you want to kiss them/they kiss you. This means to be flirty. They can’t read your mind and see what you really want, so guide them to the answer. Touch them playfully when you talk, hug them, be physically close to them. If they respond positively, it shows their interest.

# Actually look at how they interact with you

Sometimes, we get so caught up in our own feelings that we completely ignore the other person’s. So, how do you know if they want to kiss you if you’re not paying attention to their body language and reactions? If they avoid eye contact with you and stay away from any physical contact, it doesn’t sound like interest.

# Establish eye contact

Eye contact is extremely important when it comes to the first kiss. There’s always that moment before the kiss when it goes silent. That’s usually when you look into each other’s eyes and give each other a silent confirmation that you want to kiss. If they avoid eye contact that’s usually a good sign that they’re not interested.

# Ask them if they want you to kiss them

When it comes to knowing how to kiss someone for the first time, many people think asking to kiss someone is a great way to kill the buzz. However, that’s wrong. If someone is really into you and you ask them for a kiss, they think it’s super sweet and respectful. Plus, if you’re not 100% sure that they’re into you, this clears the air and gives you an answer.

# Slowly move closer to them

If you want to go in for a kiss, move in closer to them. Make sure you stand close to them, so you don’t lunge into them for a kiss. You want your face to slowly move into theirs, that way, they have time to either move forward or to pull back.

# Tilt your head back slightly – bumped noses are no fun!

When you move your face close to theirs, you’ll want to ever so slightly tilt your head to the side. By doing this, you avoid knocking your nose into their’s—not the best way to start your first kiss, let’s stay away from the emergency room. Though, if you do happen to knock noses, just laugh it off—it’s cute.

# Part your lips as you move in

When your head is tilted and you move in, part your lips slightly, almost as if breathing through your mouth. With your lips, aim for one of their lips, usually the bottom one and press your lips against theirs.

# Breathe through your nose!

Unless you have a stuffy nose, breathe through your nose. Taking huge gasps of air while kissing isn’t the sexiest move. But, if you can’t breathe through your nose, don’t worry about it, just breathe through your mouth softly when you start to feel breathless.