10 Ways To Talk To A Guy You Like

Knowing how to talk to a guy you like can be the difference between being a girl who draws guys and leaves them smitten, and a girl who seems to be trying too hard around guys.

And when it comes to knowing how to talk to a guy, it isn’t about learning subtle tricks to impress one specific guy. After all, every guy likes a girl who is popular, fun and desired by all guys. Now that you know how to catch his eye, and initiate a conversation with him, all you need to focus on is how to talk to a guy and get him to like you, when he’s around you. Just use these tips and ways, and we assure you, he’ll be smitten in no time!

# Smile often

The next time you’re talking to a guy you like, smile more often. Giggle at his jokes, smile now and then for no particular reason and reveal that sparkle in your eyes. After all, when you’re happy, it shows.

Guys are mesmerized by a woman’s smile. For one, it makes her look approachable and fun, and another, she just screams confidence when she walks around with a broad smile on her face. Smiling at a guy will have him acting like putty in your hands.

# Stop focusing your attention on what he’s thinking about

Of course, you worry about what he’s thinking, or if you’re saying something that bores him, but you shouldn’t be. Never forget this. If you want to be as relaxed and comfortable as possible when you talk to a guy, stop thinking about what he’s thinking. It doesn’t matter. If he enjoys your company, you could talk about anything you like, and he’d still listen!

# Be coy and graceful

Through the ages, women have loved chivalrous men, and men have loved graceful, coy women. Now, there’s a big difference between being a shy timid girl and a girl who’s coy. Shy is when you’re a shy person. And coy is when you’re pretending to be shy to appear more alluring and attractive.

Even to this day, guys love coy, graceful girls. So be that one. Play with your hair when you’re being thoughtful, have your own cute expressions, bat your eyelids twice instead of just once every time you close your eyes! Silly, yes, but does it work? Oh god, it does!!

All these make you very lovable and aww-so-cute! Learn to be a cute or sexy, and the guys would love to be your knight in shining armor.

# Touch him… very subtly!

Guys have always been drawn to the gentle, tender touch of a girl. Even scientific research has shown that guys involuntarily start showing more interest and flirt more with girls who touch them subtly in the middle of a conversation.

Occasionally, touch his forearm or place your palm on the edge of his shoulder, or any other place that would be appropriate for casual touches, and you’ll see how his interest in you would grow in no time!

# Appeal to his masculine side

If there’s one thing a man really wants, it’s to feel manly. If you talk about his masculinity in any way ask him to open the pickle jar, tell him he’s strong, etc. it will work wonders! He’ll find himself trying to impress you more and more with his masculinity.

# Compliment his looks

But subtly. You want to let a guy know you appreciate him, not that you’ve fallen for him. Find subtle ways to point out that he’s looking good! Simply telling him that a certain color suits him well is a sure way to get him interested in you. You’ll notice that he’ll start wearing that color more and more!

# Be a damsel

Again with the masculinity, but that’s just what men love. Be a damsel in distress, and need saving from time to time. Coyly asking him to come help you do something that you might be able to do already, is an easy way for him to feel like he needs to be there for you. He’ll be the first one there next time you need help!

# Rouse his protective streak

Throughout evolution, men have always been the hunters and the protectors while women have been the nurturers and the foragers. When you rekindle this primal instinct in a guy, he would appreciate it and love it. Reach out and hold his arm while crossing the street, smile shyly and ask him if he can carry a heavy book for a minute, hold his hand as a big, scary dog comes near you, etc.

You know the works, make him feel like your protector. And he’ll want to be by your side all the time.

# Don’t have a foul mouth

Girls who are use foul language all the time are quite a bit of a turn off for most guys. Now if you’re a girl who can trash talk, and appear vulnerable, and be strong and independent at the same time, good for you because that’s not easy for most girls.

But for all other girls, try to avoid using bad language all the time. And never talk ill about other girls or pass snide and rude remarks about coworkers and passersby when you’re walking down a street. It’s a warning sign that you’re not sweet, you’re bitchy. And guys can sense that instantly!

# Be forthcoming with your feelings

Men don’t have the best intuition, and are often oblivious to the feelings of women. So if you’re wondering how to talk to a guy and let him know about your feelings, sometimes you have to be blunt about it. Laughing at one of his jokes and saying, “You’re funny. I like you.” is a quick way to sweet-talk a guy, and will have him fawning over you in no time.