12 Things You Need To Give Your Date For Perfect Kiss

Try to imagine yourself at the end of your date on the front porch under the star-lit sky. You say good night, lean in, kiss your date and go home. It sounds pretty uneventful, right? That could have been a different scenario altogether if you had known how to give your date a mind-blowing kiss.

If you knew about these tips, this is how that night would go: You’re on the front porch under the star-lit sky. You say good night, lean in and kiss your date. What happens next is that your date kisses you back passionately. You feel both your bodies getting warmer and the breaths coming in faster. Your new date starts getting dizzy in a good way as they wrap their arms around you tightly. You start to pull back, but they don’t want to let go. Once you do, they end up saying, “Wow.”

# You

The biggest factor in giving a Sexy Kiss is you. You need to be prepared for this moment, not just emotionally but physically. Make sure that you are neat and clean. Check if you or your breath smells bad. Make sure there isn’t anything on your teeth. Put on some lip balm or have a sip of water so your lips won’t feel dry. You can’t be perfect, but you can damn well make yourself as close to it as possible.

# The setting

You don’t need to prepare a bed of roses or take your partner to a moon-lit lake. All you need is privacy, a quiet environment and a comfortable set-up. You can do this in your living room, bed room, in the park or before you say good night to each other on the porch. It’s not that important where you kiss a person. The important thing is that the setting feels right, if not perfect.

# The feeling

Love is a significant factor, but it’s not necessary to give a kiss like this. You and your partner need to feel secure with each other. You have to like each other enough for this kiss to work. If not, you could just end up seducing your partner without feeling anything at all.

# The moment

You can’t just give a sexy kiss out of the blue. Some moments may end up making the situation weird. You can’t just kiss a person sexily while shopping for groceries or while you’re mowing the lawn. You have to stop and block out everything else.

# The look

In order to give the perfectly sexy kiss, you need to start by prepping your partner. Stand still and look into each other’s eyes. It’s okay to blink. Just appreciate the moment and show everything you’re feeling through a smoldering gaze.

# The line

This needs to be prepared beforehand, especially if you’re not good at improvisation. Make sure that both you and your partner are on the same page or else anything you say may be misconstrued. If you can’t think of anything, you can just say, “You look amazing.” Or “You are incredible.” Make sure that you really believe those things or else your partner may take it the wrong way.

# The touch

A person can develop feelings for you with touch rather than with the other factors of attraction like looks, intelligence, career and personality. Once a person likes you enough, you can amplify this attraction by touching specific parts of their body. Common sense denotes that touching private parts can immediately destroy your chances for a second date. So, here are the common places you can touch to improve your Sexy Kiss.

Hands. Hold them while you’re giving The Look. By touching your partner’s hands, you’re establishing a feeling of comfort before you give them a kiss.

Arms. Touch them while you’re saying The Line. The arms are a more personal space compared to the hands. It makes the both of you feel more secure if you’re holding on to them.

Face. Gently touch or hold their face before giving The Kiss. A lot of articles and studies have said that touching a person’s face can produce unparalleled feelings of attraction compared to other exposed parts of the body. Expect your partner’s heart to skip a beat once you do this.

# The wait

The kiss needs to be done slowly. Your partner needs to know that it’s coming, but they shouldn’t be apprehensive about it. That’s why you needed the first few steps before arriving at this point. By making them anticipate it, it makes the feeling more exciting.

# The kiss

Slowly move your head towards your partner’s and gently place your lips on your partner’s. Start without any pressure and then build it up slightly to a gentle press. Don’t smother them or slobber all over their face. It needs to be sweet, yet sensual.

# The rhythm

Stay there for two or three seconds before moving your lips over theirs. Do not open your mouth wide. Simply kiss your partner’s lips the way you would eat ice cream with your mouth – NO LICKING. That comes after. Make sure that you’re not going too fast. It’s okay to go slow, but not too slow. Try to think that the ice cream I mentioned isn’t melting.

# The tongue

Oh no. You have the wrong idea. The Sexy Kiss is different from the French Kiss. When performing the sexy kiss, you will rarely see the tongue in action. What you need to do is lightly run your tongue over your partner’s lower lip twice. Once after you start kissing, and again before you stop.

# The end

To end the kiss, you have to put a bit more pressure pain-free pressure to the kiss before slightly sucking on your partner’s lower lip and then gradually moving away. A Sexy Kiss’s purpose is not to be a make-out alternative, but it has the potential to progress to intense making out. The purpose of the Sexy Kiss is to show your partner how much you want them and that you want to be desired by them, in the same way.