2 Pretty Easy Ways To Make Someone Fall Out Of Love With You

Making someone fall in love with you? Tricky, but doable. Learning how to make someone fall out of love with you? Brutal. Painful. But doable, in a couple of steps.

Love is a strange thing.

One minute you’re all happy and loved up, you adore spending time with a specific person and you’re thinking about the future and what it might look like together. It’s a wonderful feeling, right?

But, it doesn’t always last.

Sorry to be the bearer of bad news, but the reason that love feels so amazing is because it’s actually rare.

A lot of the time, love is actually infatuation, lust, or it’s simply a passing feeling that drifts away in the wind. So, when love comes and stays, when it sticks around and grows, it’s something that words can’t describe. The problem? It doesn’t always last.

# Don’t return their calls and don’t spend much time with them

If you start to become distant, the person who you’re with is probably going to wonder why. Expect many calls, and they might even turn up at your door, but you need to focus on consistency here. If you continue with your routine of not returning calls, not answering them and not spending time, they’re eventually going to get bored and move on. Harsh? Yes, Effective? Yes.

The reason this method works is because they’re going to question where you are and why your attention isn’t on them when it was before. They might start to think that you’re seeing someone else and you can expect them to be snooping on your social media, trying to find answers and clues.

Now, I would rather you actually sat down with them and explained, but I’ll also acknowledge that method isn’t going to give you fast results.

Again, if you want to be harsh here, you need to rip off the Band-Aid, and that means cutting contact pretty quickly and without an explanation. Nobody is going to stand for that type of behavior for too long, so after a short while you’ll notice that they stop calling you too.

# Leave their messages on read

This one is even harsher, but it’s effective once more. If you want to know how to make someone fall out of love with you, you need to leave their messages on read and don’t reply. It’s upsetting and it’s horrible, but it’s going to make them realize that they don’t need you and they deserve better. If you’re acting this way, in all honestly, they do deserve better, but from your point of view, it gets the job done.

That means when they send you a message on an app which allows them to see that you’ve read something, you leave it there and you deliberately open the message so they can see that tick.

You’ll no doubt have been on the receiving end of this type of behavior in the past and you’ll know what it feels like – you wonder why they’re not replying and you start to go over and over in your mind what you could have done to make them stop talking to you.