20 Important Questions You Should Ask Your Boyfriend

Being in love is the most wonderful feeling on earth. You feel that your boyfriend is your soulmate and that you two are made for each other. But this seldom holds true, and most of us see our relationship failing within months or years of knowing each other. This could be because we did not know him well in the first place. Sex and physical attraction drove you both to get into an intimate relationship, and when the initial phase faded away, the differences crept up on the surface causing frequent fights and eventual breakup. So many women out there suffer from such heartbreaks and bad relations.

In the current scenario, where people give a lot of importance to personal space and freedom, it's very necessary that you know your boyfriend in and out before getting your relation on to the next level. The next level could be moving in with each other, marriage or kids. It's better to have a complete sense of commitment and trust from your boyfriend before moving on to the next level. Knowing your boyfriend well could help you understand him better, and you also get to know whether your relationship has long-term potential or not.

While compatibility and adjustment are the key factors to make any relationship work, there are still a few things that you both should agree upon. Certain similarities or like-mindedness are necessary for a long-lasting relationship. A serious couple might do lovely and thoughtful things for each other, be great in bed and spend quality time with each other, but if they are similarly inclined towards their values and ideas in life, then it makes the relationship a whole lot better. Below is a list of some important questions you should know about your boyfriend.

# Does he like kids? It is very necessary to know his views on kids. In future, if you plan to have kids and he doesn't, it will ruin your relationship.

# Does your boyfriend want to get married or only believes in live-in? If you are the conventional types who believe in the sacred bond of marriage and your boyfriend doesn't then maybe you both should not be dating each other.

# Does he respect your goals in life? If he were mocking at your goals in life or not cooperating with you to achieve them, then perhaps you should split up.

# What scares him the most? Knowing this about your boyfriend can help you prevent or avoid such situations in future which freak him out.

# Ask about his goals in life. Its good to know them so that you can help him achieve his goals.

# When was his first kiss? As his steady girlfriend, you should be knowing this.

# Is he a virgin? If no then when did he lose his virginity? Again an important information to avoid any kind of ex-girlfriend trouble later on.

# What is his biggest sexual fantasy? Hmm, knowing this could help you create some excitement in your sex life.

# What's his music preference? You should know your boyfriend's favorite music so that you don't end up gifting him a CD of Beatles whereas he prefers country classic.

# What's his favorite holiday destination? It could be a beach, adventure, hill-station or a party place.

# Is he a spendthrift? You better know this to get an idea about your finances.

# What's his relationship like with his family? Everyone expects their partners to respect their parents. Knowing this would also tell you about how much he values relations in life.

# Does he have any ex-girlfriend? Save your self from exes trouble.

# How did his previous relation end? Was it mutual or did it end on a bad note? You should know this as you never know when you would have to confront his ex.

# Your boyfriend's qualifications. Not that it would really matter, but at least you should know whether your friend is a college drop out or has graduated with a degree in something. This will also give you an insight about the subjects which interest him.

# What turns your boyfriend on? So that you can always make your sexual encounters satisfying.

# How many people has he slept with? Make sure he has no diseases.

# Is he not striaght? Again, this is very important to know especially if you are straight.

# Has he done drugs? Find out about his before you get into any relationship.

# What are his favorite kind of movies? So that both of you enjoy a weekend together watching a good movie.