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20 Interesting Facts About Love, So Read On And Enjoy
By: Kratika Fri, 22 Jan 2021 3:45:13
Love makes the world go roundóand science is there to back this up. Here we give you the lowdown on love facts that are fun to know and share.
ìLove is a many splendored thing.îù ìLove knows reasons that Reason knows nothing of.îù
These are just two of the countless quotes about how wonderful, inexplicable, and out-of-the-ordinary love is. In fact, if you have ever been in love, you know that love, in all its beauty and glory, can often be both mysterious and confusing.
Thank heavens for science, though. Yes, science.
Not many people realize this, but apparently a lot about love can be easily explained by science. Science, technology, and decades of research have helped us somehow understand the many facets of ìthis thing called love.îù
Below, we take a look at some of the most interesting facts about love to show you that, yes, those butterflies in your stomach and that heartbreak you feel are not only realóbut backed by science. So read on and enjoy!
# There is forever
Well, not exactly. But we all want to believe in a forever with the love of our life, right? To give you some relief, monogamous relationships are possible and we are not all ìanimals.îù Even animals, themselves, can stick to one partner, and mate only with one another for life. So, if youíre having a hard time landing ìthe one,îù maybe you should find yourself a swan.
# Beating as one
Couples who are in love and in a romantic relationship are found to synchronize their heart rates *or, in science speak: co-regulate their physiologies* after they gaze into each otherís eyes for three minutes.
# Love is a drug
Falling in love can give you a high like you are on cocaine, a study says. This is because both can trigger the same feeling of euphoria to the brain. In fact, both love and cocaine stimulate 12 areas of the brain at the same time, releasing chemicals such as adrenaline, oxytocin, and dopamine.
# Cuddles, anyone?
There is, in fact, a cuddle hormone called oxytocin that is released when you cuddle with your loved ones. This hormone is produced in the brain, ovaries, and testicles, and is involved in bonding two people together, such as mother and child, or you and your partner.
# Cuddles are also great painkillers
The oxytocin that is released in the body is found to significantly reduce the pain caused by headaches. So if you want to make love to your partner, but he tells you he has a headache, cuddle first, and the headache might go away in time for you to do the deed. Better yet, instead of pain medicine, give your lover a dose of some cuddling.
# Speaking of painÖ
Another fun fact about the power of love is that even by just looking at a picture of your loved one, your pain will decrease significantly. So, if you want to feel better, be sure to have a picture of your special someone by your bedside.
# And another thing
If you are lucky enough to have your loved one beside you while youíre in pain, be sure to hold his/her hand. Holding your loved oneís hand, like cuddling, can be so soothing that it can also relieve stress and pain.
# Achy, breaky heart
Surprisingly, that image of a heart with a zigzagging line down the middle, the ever-popular symbol for heartbreak, can be proven by science. Heartbreak is real. Deeply negative emotional triggers such as a breakup, a betrayal, or the loss of a loved one can give you strong chest pain and shortness of breath called Broken Heart Syndrome.
# Love is obsession
Someone in love often exhibits strange, out-of-character behavior that is also associated with someone who has Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder. If you are in the early, budding stage of love, you will have lower serotonin levels associated with happiness, while having higher levels of cortisol, which is associated with stress.
# Love is addiction
Studies show that looking at photos of your loved ones can trigger the caudate, the region of the brain responsible for cravings. So when you see your significant otherís photos on Instagram and you start to miss him/her, thatís actually the caudate doing its job.
# Same looks?
A handful of research has identified a pattern showing that people with the same level of attractiveness end up together. This doesnít mean that if you look and dress the same as your partner that you will marry each other *though some couples do begin to look like each other over time*. This only means that if you have the same perceived social desirability as your partner, you end up considering each other a match over other people.
# Opposites DO attract
Research has shown that couples who always agree arenít really that romantically compatible. Couples who are not as close as they could be end up being happier in a relationship, because they have more things to learn from each other. So if youíre a cat person and your partner isnít, thatís your cue.
# Face or body?
Ah, the age-old question. Well, it turns out that if you are looking for a long-term relationship, you are more likely to look for someone who has an attractive face. However, if you are looking for someone with an attractive body, you are more likely just in it for the night.
# Those butterflies are real
Science was able to prove that those butterflies you feel when you see your crush or the love of your life are real. Itís not actual butterflies, though. What you feel in your tummy is actually adrenaline, which floods your body *thanks to evolution* due to your innate fight-or-flight response.
# Love is good for your memory
So, your partner forgot your anniversary again? Donít sweat it and cut each other some slack. In fact, give him/her a year. Itís been proven that falling in love calms both body and mind. It also increases the nerve growth factor for over a year, helping restore your nervous system *and those brain cells*, thereby improving memory.
# A loverís dozen
There is actually a magic number for finding your one true love: 12. Mathematical theory actually tells us that we should date a dozen people before choosing a long-term partner. This provides us with the best chance to find our best match.
# Familiarity doesnít breed contempt
Actually, it breeds romance. You are more likely to fall for someone you see on a daily basis, such as an officemate, because one of the biggest predictors of love is at work: proximity.
# Online dating is a go
Forget hooking up at a barógo online instead. 23% of couples who met via social dating sites end up marrying each other. But donít tell that to the founder of Match.com, who lost his girlfriend to someone she met onówhere elseóMatch.com. Talk about irony.
# She got it from your momma
If youíre a guy, itís most likely that you are more attracted to women who possess a bone structure that is similar to your momís. This is because of what researchers call ìsexual imprinting.îù
# Dangerous encounters
People are more likely to fall in love if they find each other in a dangerous situation than if they are in an everyday, mundane setting. So if youíre looking for that special someone, youíd better go skydiving or white-water rafting.