3 Ways To Ignite Your Intimacy Life

The words “sex” and “intimacy” can be used almost interchangeably in the context of relationships. But true intimacy is so much more than just the physical representation of romance. Intimacy involves elements of trust, passion, and tenderness; these are the elements that combine to create lasting bonds, experienced as the emotional –physical phenomena of that which represents love.

Sex for married couples can be a thing of art and beauty; you know what he likes, she is into your smell, she likes her ear ticked, you like – well, you get the point.

* Work on your sex life

So, first things first – if you feel your level of intimacy is on the decline, it is important that you and your partner establish some communication around this, and come to agreements as to what your reasonable expectations are.

* Do not be too hard on yourself

Intimacy issues are par for the course in any long-term relationship. Try not to blame yourself or presume you are doing something wrong. Many people take it deeply personally when there are changes in their sex lives. The truth is, fatigue, stress, and busy schedules can cause changes in priorities, and sex can easily go on the backburner.

* There are many creative ways couples can re-introduce sex or expand their sexual repertoire. There are thousands of books on this subject; they describe methods of roleplay, introducing props, or watching erotic films; just to mention a few.