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5 Big Signs A Girl Has Become A Possessive Girlfriend
By: Kratika Mon, 01 Aug 2022 12:57:23
Girlfriends *and boyfriends* can be a real pain in the ass sometimes, even just the average ones. But, if you have a possessive girlfriend, it feels like someone sucks the life right out of you every time you have a conversation with her. Before you say adios, do you know how to recognize the signs of a possessive girlfriend?
And if you do think you’re dating one, do you know there are ways to change a possessive girlfriend and make her less so.
By definition, a possessive girlfriend will try to control *and even manipulate* you into doing what she wants. She may think she owns you, and this is never healthy in any type of relationship *even in a friendship!*.
# She panics when you don’t answer her calls
One of the signs of a possessive girlfriend is when she panics even if you just miss one call. She attempts to call you on every social media platform and your phone number – and if you don’t answer any of them at any given time, she’ll immediately panic.
# She always suspects something’s going on
Everyone calls it being paranoid; we call it possessiveness. She always checks your phone and social media accounts to see if you’re cheating or you’re doing something fishy when she’s not around.
She always assumes that you’re going behind her back just to flirt with someone else.
# She’s everywhere
There’s no escaping a possessive girlfriend. Even when you want some space from her and hang out with the boys one evening, you can’t! *doesn’t it get exhausting?*
Whether it’s running errands, having a boys’ night, or simply just enjoying your ‘me’ time, she’s somehow always around. She tries to insert herself in everything you do, even when not necessary.
# She dominates you
Girls can dominate relationships too, and it can result in a controlling and possessive relationship. She always wants things her way, and she tries to control your actions and behavior in the way she wants.
You don’t get a say at all in her decisions. This is one of the obvious indicators of a possessive girlfriend you should watch out for. In fact, this is one of the most dangerous red flags you need to spot early in the relationship.
# She’s very petty
Does she get angry when you respond late to a text? Or maybe she tries to fight you for the most minor things like forgetting to bring her coffee?
Whatever pettiness she can use in the relationship, expect it in the actions of a possessive girlfriend.