5 Steps To Find True Love When You Have Lost Your Belief In Love

When love fails, don’t blame love for it. That’s an easy excuse to pretend like you had no part to play in the failure. Almost all the time, love fails only when the partners fail the compatibility test in love.

If you want to experience a beautiful romance, and start believing in love again, keep these 5 simple steps in mind. It’ll make the experience of love a lot better in no time.

# Love should be effortless

You can’t force yourself or someone else to fall in love with you. It has to come naturally. If you don’t feel it, you’re probably better in someone else’s arms.

# Playing the chase

Love always starts with a bit of a tease and a chase, not just in humans but in several other species as well. When both of you are past the chase and have fallen for each other, there shouldn’t be second thoughts about the relationship. If you’re not happy to be in the relationship, you need to get out.

# Don’t fall hard immediately

Wait for a few months before you progress from the courting game to falling in love. Even if you’re really happy spending hours together, don’t get exclusive until you’re certain you’re giving your heart to the right person.

# Communicate

Talk about each other’s wants and needs all the time. Share interesting conversations that can help both of you understand each other completely.

# Give second chances

Even the best of us make mistakes. Even if it hurts at times, be prepared to give a second chance if your partner hurts you, but never give a third or a fourth chance. A partner who repeatedly hurts you intentionally doesn’t love you, they’re only using you.