5 Steps To Follow On Getting Over An Ex Girlfirend

As macho as men portray themselves to be, breaking up can really hurt, and especially so if she’s decided to leave and walk all over you on her way out.Figuring out how to get over an ex girlfriend can be bearable and even fun, if you follow these suggestions on getting over an ex girlfriend.

# Avoid her and her friends

Now we know you’re hurting. And you long to touch her again, or spend a few moments with her.But you really need to stay away from her, unless you want to lose more of that tiny bit of respect she may have for you.Women love humiliating exes and treating spurned lovers like stray dogs. *gasp!*

So for your own good, avoid her territory unless you want to be shooed away loudly in front of everyone else.And even if your ex girlfriend has good looking friends with whom you’re close and rather friendly, stay away from them too. You can hit on them later, but after many months.Until then, they’re still her loyal friends and will be influenced by her side of the story.

# Delete her from your life

If your ex girlfriend is connected to you in any manner, via cell phone, facebook, or whatever else, erase all signs of her existence. Being a man, you’re expected to play nice and avoid confrontation with a girl, and that can be rather difficult when she starts to play her post break-up games.

Girls usually pretend to be overly happy and celebrate their new found single social lives by plastering their facebook walls with party photos and skimpy vacation shots with other guys. If you want to get over your ex girlfriend, you really need to avoid seeing any of this.

As much as you know this ploy, it can make your blood boil and you may lose your cool and start an all-out public social network confrontation. And again, she gets the chance to shoo you away like a stray dog on a social network or via texting while her friends are around. So stay away from unnecessary humiliating confrontations.

Seriously, your relationship is history. Both of you broke up. The process of healing is all about you, not her and not both of you as a couple. Worry about getting over it, and don’t waste your time trying to prove a stupid point to your ex girlfriend.

# Call up your crushes

This is definitely great if you want to get over your ex girlfriend. Now all men know how exciting it is to have a great conversation with a crush. Now the feelings may not be mutual and your crush may not fall in love with you just because you’re single and ready to mingle.

But when you do mention how devastated, broken hearted and vulnerable you are, there’s a good chance your crush would soften up and try to make you feel better. And hey, getting your crush to smooth talk you and call you all kinds of cute names is definitely a turn on that would make you forget your bleeding ex girlfriend, wouldn’t you say?

And there’s a slight hope that your crush may actually end up liking you as she tries to nurse you back to a good heart. After all, women do end up falling for a guy who’s all vulnerable and helpless. Awww…

# Admire other women

As men, we know that women are definitely the most beautiful things ever to grace planet earth. Heck, they’re even the reason for global warming!

So admire them. Stare at a girl’s curves as she moves up the escalator and look at her long legs as she walks past you. You could never do that when you were with your girlfriend, could you? And start comparing every gorgeous girl you see with your girlfriend, and start remembering all her flaws. Pretty soon, you’ll remember how ugly she really looks.

# Date other girls

There’s nothing that can lift a man’s spirits after a break up than dating other good looking girls. Try hooking up some pity dates with your crushes or try and meet someone new for a date. Come on now, you know you can get any girl if you try hard enough, right? So make that move, Casanova, and make it good.