5 Tell Tale Signs You Are Being Seduced

Seduction employs discreet and unassuming tricks which is why some people manage to fall into that trap in the first place. But despite this, seduction still needs to follow a specific formula for it to work effectively. Once you understand how to know if you’re being seduced, you’ll become immune to their charms and easily see through their motives.

If you’ve ever wondered if you’re being seduced by someone, keep an eye on these signs. Sometimes, your instincts may tell you you’re being seduced subtly even if the person isn’t being overly obvious about it.

# You receive a lot of attention from them

The first obvious sign of seduction is getting an unusually high volume of attention from a specific person. Further confirmed if they give you more attention than other people around them. Such attention can take many forms, but the first thing to keep in mind is that the attention the seducer will give you will be something very appealing to you. Remember, attention can be quite addictive, and seducers know that.

**They will communicate frequently. If you exchange a lot of texts, calls, instant messages, and social media interactions from the time you exchanged contact information, be wary. You might be in the crosshairs of a seducer.

**They place themselves in close proximity. If you notice that the suspected seducer starts to frequent your usual hang out spots, hanging out with your friends and the people you know, or maybe doing the same activities as you, they want you.

**They notice every change in your person and compliment you often. Be it in person or social media, they will be the first to comment if you’re losing weight, wearing a new perfume, a new suit or dress, or a new haircut. It’s as if you suddenly have your dedicated number one fan.

# They present themselves differently in your presence

In their quest to lead you to bed, they will do every step to make themselves appear desirable in your eyes. Great effort will be taken to impress you and sweep you off your feet in both appearance and endearing gestures.

**The seducer will dress up and take effort to improve their appearance. You’ll notice that your seducer will bring out the good stuff: fancy suits, nice haircuts, perfumes, and accessories. Female seducers in particular will wear sexy and revealing outfits to flaunt their assets.

**Obvious special treatment and favors from them. Seducers will make good use of special favors to endear themselves to you. They will offer to help you in your errands, buy you stuff, babysit pets, and offer you rides to different places. It is easy to fall into this trap, but remember that the seducer is “playing nice” because of an ulterior motive.

# They play a game of catch and release

Catch and release is a form of manipulation where they will give you all the attention and sweetness that you crave when suddenly they put it to a stop until you go through the withdrawal symptoms.

Once you’ve felt that you’re missing all the attention, you’ll be tricked into seeking it later on. And without knowing, you’ve fallen into their trap.

# The seducer puts you in a state of suspense

Just like the catch and release ploy, your time with the seducer is far from uneventful. You’ll experience periodic bursts of drama, emotion, and a little bit of romanticism, making it seem that your seducer is never boring. You’ll always be in a situation where you’re second guessing due to these little surprises. A form of manipulation to keep you hooked on them.

# For women: They show a lot of skin

Women have a natural edge in seduction. Men are easily swayed by a little flash of the flesh. Obviously, a seductress will use this to her advantage through sexy and revealing dresses. The honey-pot technique is as old as time. There’s a reason why it never gets old.