5 Things You Should NOT Send Your Girlfriend

Yes, I am going to give you plenty of cute texts to send your girlfriend. But before we get to that, let me clue you in on some things you definitely should not send to her.

You might think it is cute or sweet or sexy, but trust me, it isn’t. There are some things that girls don’t like and other things girls hate. These are the ones to avoid.

# Your privates

Proud of your junk? Good for you. But no girl, no matter how much she may be into you or even in love with you, needs your thingy popping up on her screen. Let’s start with she could be with her parents, her boss, her grandmother.

Also, that is just not really something girls need to see to be turned on or excited. And even if your girl does like it, do NOT send any private photos unsolicited. That is not a good surprise. Sorry, it just isn’t. In fact, it could turn her off. So just avoid it altogether.

# Sorry

You can’t just text, sorry! No, at least not on its own. If you are trying to apologize to your girlfriend for something minor or something major, the word ‘sorry’ does not mean much. First off, a decent apology should occur in person or at the very least on the phone.

If you have no choice but to apologize via text, elaborate a touch more. Explain why you’re sorry, what you’re sorry for, and how you’ll work to make sure it won’t happen again.

# Emojis

Yes, emojis are all fine and well when used in moderation. But trying to have a conversation with just little yellow emoji people will not cut it. If she sends you an “I love you” and you reply with an emoji rather than an actual response, it’s like someone saying, “have a nice day,” and you reply “yea.”

Keep the emoji use to a minimum. Don’t use them in place of actual words, just in addition to when the moment calls for it.

# Too many texts

The difference between a sweet guy and a smothering guy is that a sweet guy knows when to take a hint. A smothering guy will continue to text until he gets a response. If you texted her something like, “how’s your day?” and she has yet to answer, just let it be. She is probably busy.

Trying to send her something cute is one thing. Going overboard with “I miss you,” “I hope I’m not bothering you,” and more like that is going to push her away more than impress her. You can be sweet by sending cute texts to your girlfriend. Just don’t push it. Less is more.

# Intensity

Texting should not be where you have super intense conversations. Do not tell her you love her for the first time via a text. Texting is to keep in touch, make plans, send memes, etc.

Keep it light, though. There is no need to overload a text with insane amounts of emotion. Save those moments for handwritten love notes and really knock out the romance.