5 Tips To Help You Make Your Angry Wife Happy Again

If your wife is always angry and negative toward you, you first need to understand the different triggers that make her this way. Perhaps she has deep-seated anger issues that often manifest and cause turbulence in your married life. This can also lead to her becoming an angry, depressed wife.

It is important to revive your wife’s happiness and bring back the lost mirth in your house instead of calling her a crazy wife and other names and then continuing fighting with her about it. Even if she has offended you and you are upset with her, it is time that you become the bigger person and bring your relationship back on track.

# Apologize for your mistake

Wives stay mad at their husbands for longer periods because their husbands have not apologized for their mistakes. It is important that when there is a fight, one person keeps his/her ego aside and tries to fix things. For all you know, she’s still holding a grudge about the time you forgot to water the plants but you lied to her that you did.

If you are the one who has committed the mistake, you should apologize sincerely to your wife at the first chance you get. Not only is it an essential virtue, but a habit like this will also keep some of your marital problems at bay.

# Calm down an angry wife instead of adding fuel to the fire

It is important to calm down an angry wife when she is furious at you. Instead of letting her words get to you, take the higher road instead. Do not resort to saying hurtful things back to her or attempt blame-shifting. Instead, try talking to her or holding her tightly but lovingly when she lashes out at you.

At this time make it a point not to retaliate or say something that aggravates her even more. This is the time to show her that you still care for her even if she is shouting at you. I know, it sounds like we are asking you to be a saint but sometimes, you have to. She will eventually give into your efforts and calm down.

# Listen to her side of the story

When your wife is angry at you, she can quickly turn into a nagging wife. A nagging wife may keep complaining a lot making you grow weary of hearing the same thing over and over again. But think about it more deeply as this may not be without reason.

How to deal with an angry wife? Pay sincere attention to her and listen to what complaints or issues she has with you. Perhaps you have been coming home late everyday, or there is another misunderstanding that is constantly brimming in her mind. Whatever it may be, allow her to let it all out.

# Don’t let your ego get in the way

It’s only human to get your ego hurt when an angry wife is expressing her grievances to you. So we don’t entirely blame you if you start to get defensive during a fight. But many a times when married couples fight, the issue becomes even worse because both partners aren’t willing to let go of their ego.

Both the partners in their mind feel that they are right and in doing so, they hamper their relationship. And gradually, fights become bigger than the relationship. Eventually, both spouses forget what is truly important and continue to ruminate on the hurt caused by the issue at hand.

# How to make your wife happy when she is angry? Surprise her

An angry wife won’t be angry for long when she starts seeing that you are making genuine efforts to win back her love. You know all the things that will make her heart melt and now is the chance to use those things to win your wife back.

Give her surprises and thoughtful gifts that will melt her heart instantly. Sending her flowers, cooking a special meal for her or sending her chocolates spelling out ‘I’m sorry’ are some great ways to put a smile on her face again. Her heart will melt in no time and her anger will disappear.