5 Ways To Get Noticed In A Crowd
By: Kratika Mon, 19 July 2021 4:02 PM
People always think that they are unnoticeable, and dont know the reason why. This is hardly true because people interact with other people on a daily basis, whether it’s online, at work or at school. The difference is that some people make a point of being noticed, while some coast along, hoping that a spark of recognition from their peers will validate their existence.
Some people choose to live isolated lives inside their homes, but complaining about not being noticed in that situation seems too ironic to contemplate. Some are engaged in various social circles, but feel that they aren’t making an impact on the people around them.
You may be rocking the moody chick look in your mind’s eye, but no one ever liked a gloomy person. The only people that can relate to them are fellow mourners. Find something that makes you happy and smile about it – preferably in public or in front of your crush.
We’ve tackled smiling, but laughing is a whole other level. Laughing means that you have the capacity to take things in stride and find the humor in everyday things. When people see you laugh genuinely about something, they’ll be intrigued and wonder why they aren’t in on the joke. No matter how corny the joke is, don’t hold the chuckles in.
# Be healthy
Do you know why attractive people get the most attention? This is because the attractiveness of a person can be subconsciously attributed to their health. You don’t need to go on the latest diet or spend hours at the gym. All you need to do is glow from within.
People are more apt to remember you when they experience some sort of connection with you. When you listen to people’s problems, views and stories, they will establish a bond with you because you managed to give them the attention that they needed.
# Hone your skills
Since the beginning of time, people have had predetermined roles in society. Some cultures assigned these to their members, but that is usually because their attributes were readily apparent i.e. strength, intelligence, agility. These days, you have to find what you’re good at because hunting and gathering aren’t really a basis for recognition these days. Once you find what you excel at and maximize that potential, people will start to notice you.
# Have fun
The best way to connect with people is to do the same things that they do. This does not mean that you have to start playing an instrument because your crush is doing it. Do whatever makes you happy because sooner or later, you will find people who will appreciate your enthusiasm about a particular hobby, activity or interest.
# Be with people
If all you do is post Facebook statuses and Instagram food photos, the only people who will notice you are those who only care about social media and food. Real people go out and experience life. By doing so, you will be able to connect with individuals who notice the people around them. Being noticed means that someone is there to notice you. That won’t happen if you’re cooped up inside your room.