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5 Ways To Transmute Sexual Energy Into Some Other Form Of Energy
By: Kratika Wed, 20 Apr 2022 1:27:32
Sexual energy can be defined as creative energy, and it’s building up inside of you all the time. Of course, many people allow it to be released through physical sex, while others let it build up. You can encourage this build by meditation or exercise, as two main options.
When you’re feeling a little aroused shall we say, rather than using that energy and having sex or masturbating, try focusing your mind on something else, i.e., a problem you need to fix. We mentioned at the start that when you’re feeling full of sexual energy, it can be hard to think straight. But when you learn how to use sexual transmutation, you’ll find it easier to channel that energy into something productive, rather than allowing horny thoughts to derail your day or fog your mind.
Using sexual transmutation in the right way can make it easier for you to solve problems, to have healthy and fulfilling relationships, to boost your performance at work or in a sporting situation, the list goes on.
# Become aware of yourself
The first step in sexual transmutation is to be totally in tune with your inner self and aware of how you’re feeling in any given moment. Using mindfulness practices can be very useful. They keep you in the present moment and stop you from thinking back to the past or jumping forwards to the future.
You need to be totally aware of your own sexual energy, so that you know when it’s building up.
How does that feel to you? Well, it varies from person to person. This is why self-awareness is so important. You have to know what it feels like for you as a unique and individual person.
# Become aware of chakras
Many people who learn how to use sexual transmutation use meditation, and they focus on specific chakras *chakras are small circles of energy within the body that are aligned in a straight line from under the pubic bone all the way up to the top of your head*.
These are energy centers within the body. The best chakra to use for sexual energy is the sacral chakra, which is located a small distance above the pubic bone.
You could also use the heart center instead and direct all of your energy throughout your body. The best way to learn how to use chakras is to visualize them within your body. Know where they are and then learn the colors. The sacral chakra is often labeled as orange.
# Visualize your energy moving
Normally, you would release
sexual energy via actual sex. In this case, you’re going to pour it
into something else. The most effective way is by pouring your energy
into something artistic or creative. That is because sexual energy is so
akin to creative energy.
Moving your energy from one place to
another is done with practice, but you need to visualize it moving to
get it to actually do what you want.
Don’t worry if it doesn’t
quite work the first time. Practice as much as you can and focus your
mind. If you don’t want to pour your energy into something creative or
that avenue isn’t working for you, go for something athletic.
# Try tantric edging
A good way to start trying sexual transmutation is to use tantric edging. Once you’ve tried the simple techniques of becoming more aware of your sexual energy and allowing it to build, this is a good option to really start transferring your energy to another place.
You’ve no doubt heard of tantric sex but maybe you’re not too sure what it is. It’s a spiritual type of sexual practice but anyone can try it.
In this situation, you actually do have sex but you don’t allow yourself to climax. Yes, the first few times you do it you’ll probably be a bit frustrated, but stick with it. Take yourself within the smallest fraction of orgasm and then stop. Wait. Don’t move.
# Focus on orgasmic visualization
The good news here is that you’re not actually going to be denying yourself anything – you get to have sex and you get to orgasm! But, you need to go into sex with a very clear idea of what you want to achieve when using sexual transmutation.
In some ways, this is a form of manifestation. Maybe you want to be able to finish the last couple of chapters of a book you’re writing or you want to find the confidence to go back to school.
Before sex, visualize that goal and make sure it stays in your mind. As you orgasm, pull that thought to your mind and focus on it.