6 Biggest Sexual Turn Offs For Guys In Bed

For a guy, sex occupies a pretty big place in his mind.Every time he has glorious sex and makes a girl experience a shivering orgasm, he feels like he’s conquered a new realm.He feels great about himself.He feels taller and stronger, and a lot manlier.But every time he has bad sex, or feels like he couldn’t make a girl shudder in orgasms, he feels a little less like a real man.

There are so many things a girl can do to make a man feel like he’s a sex god, and almost always, a girl never does anything wrong in bed. Sometimes, all you need to do is bat your eyelids or call him to bed with a twirl of your finger to get him to grin widely, jump into bed and pounce on you.

# The starfish

A starfish is a girl who just lies down in bed and expects the guy to do everything. She assumes penetration defines sex, and doesn’t do anything beyond parting her legs for him. Sometimes, she may even close her eyes or look away while he’s grunting on top of her.

Don’t be that girl. As attractive and sexy as you may be, a guy still wants to feel like he’s making love to you, and not taking advantage of a girl who’s bored or lifeless, or too wasted to realize what’s going on *well, unless you’re role playing his fantasy of a drunk girl*.

# A girl with an attitude

A fun attitude in bed is sexy. But when a girl comes to bed with a book of rules and checklists, it can get pretty annoying for a guy very soon. Do you say things like “I don’t do anal” or “I won’t give you a blowjob” while both of you are still indulging in foreplay?

You may have a few rules in your head, but voicing every rule or making it clear that he shouldn’t have great expectations from you will just kill his mood. No guy likes a girl who slaps a guy’s hand in bed every now and then, or sits up and pouts. It’s a real put off!

# She thinks it’s a plastic toy

A few girls just don’t know how to handle a guy’s member. And guys hate that. Don’t treat a man’s little guy like it’s a toy or yank it like it’s on anesthesia just because it’s swollen up. A man’s balls and stick are very sensitive, and hurting it will hurt his ego too. Be gentle, and ask him if he likes what you’re doing if you’re confused at any point.

# Selfish sex

This is something most guys hate, but have to deal with because they don’t have a choice! The guy’s moving in and out on a carnal high, and all of a sudden, he feels a sharp pat on his shoulder. He opens his eyes and looks at the girl staring at him with a vacant expression, wondering when the guy’s going to be done because she’s had an orgasm already and is done with sex.

Do you ask your boyfriend to stop as soon as you finish up? Or do you lose interest and get bored of sex as soon as you orgasm? That’s a definite turn off even if you can’t help yourself!

# She doesn’t ever orgasm

This may not always be your fault. After all, there are a few girls who can’t orgasm because of a medical condition. But making the girl orgasm gives a psychological high for every guy. If you don’t orgasm often, it’ll make the guy believe he’s not capable of pleasing you sexually.

# Personal hygiene

Keep yourself clean, especially in places where the sun don’t shine. If a guy uses his finger to arouse you, and gets it out from under the blanket, do his fingers add a new strong fragrance to the room? He may pretend like everything’s normal, but under the sheets, his member would definitely shrink at least a little! And he may be too traumatized to even get his head under the blanket.