6 Green Flags That Will Let You Know You Found A Catch

In dating, we hear a lot about red flags, but not enough about green flags. That’s why I’ve put together a list of 10 green flags that will let you know you found a catch.

In my Conscious Dating Programs, I’ve coached many singles to find lasting love, and the most common problem I see is most people don’t know what the perfect person looks like.

Many people haven’t been in a good relationship. It’s tough to look for something you haven’t seen before. That’s where this list comes in. If you’ve catch these flags, keep an extra close eye on your date—they might be the one.

# They Actively Listen

Like, really listen. They want to hear what you have to say, even when the conversations are tough. They listen extra closely when you’re distressed, because what matters to you matters to them.

# They Know How to Share

They listen but they communicate well, too. They express their feelings and communicate their clearly. You’re able to have difficult conversations with them—money, insecurities, you name it. It’s not easy to keep a cool head in tough conversations. Give them points for this one.

# They Keep Their Word

Their words and actions match. If they make a commitment to something, they follow through. It’s okay if not everything’s perfect, if you can count on them to try their best every time.

# They’re Sensitive To Your Needs

Everybody has triggers and sensitivities. A good partner is aware of yours and will tailor their behavior to accommodate them. It’s not about convenience. It’s about compassion.

# They Support Your Growth

Relationships are serious business. You signed up for a union, possibly forever. But the growth doesn’t stop when you say yes. Both of you will grow as time passes. It’s important for your partner to love you as your are now, but also for them to keep loving you for the person you’ll become. It’s hard to say you’ll love someone when you don’t know who they’ll be, but that’s what commitment is. If they’re in it for the long haul, this is a tell.

# They Take Conflict Head-On

They don’t avoid conflict. Fights are a healthy part of a relationship, if they’re handled with respect. How a couple navigates conflict says a lot about the strength of the relationship. If your partner is able to discuss an upset respectfully and immediately when it arises, it’s a great sign.