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6 Most Obvious Signs She Is Flirting With You
By: Kratika Tue, 07 Sept 2021 2:20:17
Do you know how to recognize the signs a girl is flirting with you? Many men are tongue-tied trying to figure out if the girl of their dreams likes them or not. Let alone pick up on the signs she’s flirting with you.
Well, usually when this happens, guys are too busy freaking out and overthinking. And you’re missing all the small details which tell you everything. Stop it! If you really want to find out, you’re going to have to relax and start paying attention to the nonverbal cues.
Women aren’t as vocal as men when it comes to expressing their attraction for someone. Rather, they’re much subtler and make small gestures and hints to show the guy that they’re into him. Basically, men need to be mind readers!
# She’s all about the smiles
Now, you and I both know that people don’t give genuine smiles for no reason. It’s not that she has to smile, she wants to smile. If her smile is genuine and you see it from her mouth to her eyes, she’s physically showing you that she’s happy to be around you. If she’s smiling at you and you can notice a few other signs she’s flirting with you, you’re onto a winner!
# She’s excited when she’s around you
If she’s usually dodging you and avoiding being near you, take the hint that she’s not into you. But if she’s relaxed and excited when she’s spending time with you, well, she may be turned on. See, you’re not bringing out her anxiety, rather, you’re bringing out her relaxed side.
# She doesn’t hesitate to touch you
Now, we’ve heard this before, but this is so important. Unless it’s accidental, if a girl touches you, she’s attracted to you. Both men and women refrain from touching people that they’re not into. If she’s making excuses to touch you, this is one of the signs she’s flirting with you. Does she play with your fingers? Compare palm sizes? Man, she’s into you!
# She changed her look suddenly
Ever since you started talking, you’ve noticed a change in the way she looks. She’s been wearing more stylish clothes, doing her hair and makeup, she’s putting more effort into her looks. Now, she wouldn’t do this unless she’s trying to attract someone’s eye.
# You feel sexual energy
If you want to read the signs she’s flirting with you, just stop for a moment. Listen to your body. What do you feel? When two people share sexual chemistry, they’ll feel it. It’s like an electrical current going up your spine and stomach. Listen to your body because it’ll be able to give you clues of what’s going on.
# She sits close to you
Again, if I had sat next to a guy that I didn’t like, well, I would have made sure there was a comfortable distance between us. I don’t want to him to sit any closer to me because I’m not into him. But if I’m into a guy, I’ll squeeze my ass right next to his and make sure at least one of our body parts is lightly touching each other. If she’s making it her intention to sit close to you, it’s one of the major signs she’s flirting with you.