6 Most Obvious Signs The Person You Are Texting Is Planning On Vanishing

Some people have been ghosted more times than they would like to admit, and we can say it is not something you see always coming. We’ve put together a list of the signs to answer the question, “am I being ghosted?… or not.

Sure, sometimes you get a feeling, but other times the rug is ripped right out from under you.

And then there are the times you think you’re being ghosted, but you were just jumping to conclusions.When someone ghosts you, it isn’t always a slowing down of conversation. Sometimes ghosting really does come out of the blue. Other times you don’t even know if you’re being ghosted.

# You’re always texting first

Maybe at one point, you talked nonstop, but if you find yourself always reaching out first, there is a reason.

Even if they respond, they may just not be prepared to totally ghost yet. But, when someone wants to talk to you, they reach out.

# Their answers are brief

If they just barely answer, they are preparing to ghost. They may even be hoping that by slowly backing away, you’ll just get the picture and stop reaching out.

# The cuteness fades

When you first started talking, the sparks most likely flew. You were flirting with nonstop banter. But if the fun conversations ceased, and you’re left with the boring stuff, they are no longer interested.

# There are no endings to conversations

Remember when he used to say goodnight or try to stay awake to talk to you? Or when you would wake up to a “Good morning, beautiful,” text? Well, before he ghosts you, he’ll stop putting that effort in.

Conversations will die out but not in the normal way. They will die out because he won’t answer questions or respond regularly.

# He’s ghosted you before

If he ghosted you in the past and then came back to see if you were still available and you gave him another chance, he will most likely do it again. We’re sorry to be the one to tell you that guys rarely see their wrongdoings and come around.

What likely happened was he got dumped or ghosted by someone else and wanted to see if you were still interested purely to boost his fragile ego.

He may even have disappeared for days before, but responded when you reached out so you forgot about it, but that was just his first attempt.

# It was too good to be true

We hate to be so bitter because it would be nice if things that seemed too good to be true were just true. Usually, they aren’t. If everything felt too perfect right off the bat, it’s probably because it was.

You didn’t just meet a guy who agrees with you about everything and wants all the same things in life. He was probably lying, but will soon decide it’s not worth it.