6 Not So Obvious Signs He Is Into You

It’s difficult to tell if a guy is serious about you unless he puts himself on the line and actually says, “I like you.” But it’s understandable that some guys aren’t this straightforward. He might be shy, or he may have been burned in the past and fears rejection or he might be a game player. So, what are the signs he’s into you?

Well, actually, it’s usually pretty obvious; because guys are not that subtle, even when they think they’re being subtle. But you may not have been looking out for these signs because perhaps you didn’t even realize they are signs! Here’re some of the signs he’s into you that you’re may not be looking out for.

# He always starts up a conversation

Whether it’s to talk about something deep and serious, or just indulging in idle chit chatter; this is a healthy sign he likes you. He likes talking to you and is probably interested in you beyond your physical appearance.

And the more you talk to someone about things you’re both interested in, the more likely you are to fall for each other.

# His eyes never lie

Smiling is always a good sign, but how do you know if he’s genuinely smiling at you or faking it? It’ll be written in his eyes. If he’s smiling with his eyes, it’s a strong sign that he has real feelings for you.

# He wants to impress you

Whether he proudly tells you about his accomplishments or looks at you for approval of his jokes or stories; he’s doing this because he likes you.

He may exaggerate or embellish at times, but that’s only because he wants to impress you. He wants you to know how great he can be. A man only acts like this with the people whose opinion he cares about!

# He drops the guard

Do you find yourself having deep conversations with this guy, where he removes the armor he usually wears, and bares his soul to you?

Most people – men and women – are afraid of being vulnerable out of fear of getting hurt or being seen as weak. So if a man is willing to show you his true self, chances are he doesn’t do this with many people, and he sees you as someone special he can open up to.

# He checks you out

Men are visual creatures. That means when they’re drawn to something, they can’t help themselves but stare. It’s simply in their nature.

So if you catch him staring at you longer than usual, or find that his eyes always seem to be locked on you (not in a creepy way); take it as a compliment and a strong indication that he likes you a lot.

# He mirrors you

We’re all able to be influenced by other people’s actions to a certain degree. An example of this is laughing when someone else is laughing, or seeing someone yawn and then finding yourself yawning too. But when a guy likes you, he’s even more likely to be influenced by your body language and actions.