6 Reasons Why We Should Flirt Like Teens Even When We Are Adults

Life was simple as a teenager. We weren’t distracted by jobs, bills, and commitments. We lived in the moment. We learned basic male/female interaction and flirting, but unfortunately as we get older, we lose some of the enjoyment. It all becomes a bit serious and calculated. Whatever happened to just having fun and seeing what happened?

You may think that if you use some flirtation moves you used to do as a teen, you’ll end up being labelled as immature. But in reality, the sweetness and innocence of the way teenagers flirt is a stark contrast to the more scheming and seductive flirting moves that we employ as adults.

So why not go back to those days of fun and harmless flirtation? You might be surprised at how effective they can be in securing the affections of the opposite sex!

# Tease

This is massive. Women love being teased, no matter what her age. Remember back to how you would tease your female friends when you were young. They would giggle and maybe playfully hit you.

As adults, it keeps a fun vibe that is really important, especially when you are first meeting someone. We tend to be too safe as we get older. We don’t want to offend women, and end up being “too nice.” This inevitably winds up as a first-class ticket to the friend zone.

# Play fight

Women like strong, muscular guys. They love to fall into a man’s arms, and feel protected and overpowered. Don’t be scared to play fight a little, to excite her and keep that fun vibe going. Obviously, don’t just go and start grabbing random women you don’t know. Ensure that she is comfortable with you first, and then you can start messing around with her.

Pick her up and run down the street with her, start tickling her, or start a playful boxing match. Lots of physical flirting will inevitably get the girl excited and is a super easy way to fall into each other’s arms and make out for the first time.

# Exclude

If she doesn’t hear what you’re talking about, or she comes over mid-conversation, you can playfully exclude her from the conversation.

Tell her that you are talking about her, talking about something top secret, or talking about “boy stuff.” She will be intrigued and want to know what you are really talking about. This is an easy lead in to the two previous ways of flirting. If you exclude her, she will often start having a playful little hissy fit which you can imitate, or she may start hitting you and initiating play fighting.

# Giggle

There is a lot to be said for being in the moment and having fun. Men are naturally attracted to smiling women, and they love it when you giggle at their jokes – even if they’re not really that funny! Guys like to be around women that are fun and easy going, someone that they can have a laugh with, and maybe more. It’s a release from the stresses of life, the office, etc.

Especially when you first meet, if you come across as someone who is fun to be around and will be adding pleasure to a man’s life, he will be very interested in getting to know you better. The girlish giggle that teenagers do tends to be carefree and flirty, exactly what a guy wants to see.

# Slap/punch

On the arm! Not in the face, before you get any ideas. Guys love to playfight with women, it gives them a chance to show off a little and overpower you. It creates a playful environment where you are comfortable with each other and being in close proximity.

Unfortunately today, many guys are bad at reading when women like them and are overly hesitant to move things forward. If you have a playful vibe and initiate some playfighting, even the dumbest of guys can figure out that you are flirting and are probably into him!

# Pull faces

Pulling faces is a fun way to communicate, albeit a silly way. It shows that you don’t take yourself too seriously and that you are comfortable messing around a bit. It also shows you haven’t botoxed your face rigid!

It’s childish and silly, and that is exactly why guys like it. Not to say that men are childish and silly, but that it is nice to have some fun and play around a bit. People tend to take themselves too seriously nowadays and are obsessed with keeping up appearances. Letting loose a little bit and being carefree is an attractive quality to possess.