6 Signs He Is Really In Love With You During Intimacy

Have you ever stopped to wonder if your man truly loved you and wasn't only after the sex? This is a more common question that passes someone's mind than you'd think; hence the need to reiterate the signs that he's making real love with you during sex.

To spot the difference between making love and lust, the term 'making love' must first be defined. There is a big gap between these two concepts. One is solely based on sensual and sexual desires, while the other consists of deeper aspects such as vulnerability and intimacy.

For men, making love usually entails emotional intimacy and physical vulnerability. This is one of the reasons why it catches them off guard when they realize just how much they've fallen for someone after the deed of sex.

# There is eye contact

This is one of the simplest ways to confirming love in a relationship. Eyes aren't closed. Instead, he looks into you while in the act of pleasing you. And you know that there's substance and deeply-founded affection behind that look. It's not some fazed, "under the influence" look that is usually present during intense sex.

# He is generousůvery generous

Next would be just how much attention is given to you during lovemaking. If your partner makes sure you are well satisfied during foreplay and doesn't skimp out on giving you pleasure, then you can take this as a sign of how much he values you and wants you happy.

# He makes sure you're turned on

Equally important is being lubricated enough before he takes the plunge. It would hurt otherwise. In this case, the hurt is something that should not exist in the relationship because it means that he only cares about self-pleasure.

# He waits

Speaking of self-pleasure, does he wait for you to finish or climax before he does? This might be a simple thing to do, but it symbolizes so much. If you can see that he struggles in not letting go before you do, it means that he has made it a goal to put you first. In case it's impossible, he strives to get it going again so that you can have a second round to finish.

# There's emotion

There is usually so much emotion involved in lovemaking. He says, "I love you" or calls you by your name in an intimate way that no porn video could ever match.

# There is a lot of kissing involved

There is something about the lips meeting that achieves a level of intimacy, unlike any other. Furthermore, it is a sign of love and affection. So if he kisses you on the forehead, neck, stomach, inner thigh during foreplay, he's really smothering you with love.