6 Subtle Signs He Wants To Kiss You

Now, I never said men were easy to figure out. They’re not. Even though women like to believe men are simple and easy to read, remember they’re human. They’re full of emotions and thoughts. Though you think they just want to get into your pants, it’s not always that simple. But if you see the signs he wants to kiss you, maybe you can make the first move instead if you feel the same way.

Maybe this guy has been your friend for years and though he likes you, doesn’t want to lose you. Or maybe one day he saw you walking past him and thought that you’re the most beautiful woman he’s ever seen. You just don’t know what’s going on in their heads. But, eventually, the signs slowly start to seep out of them. I mean, it’s not that easy to contain your feelings for someone.

When those signs show, this is when you need to pay attention and start putting the pieces of the puzzle together. Some signs may be obvious, if they are, you’re lucky. But some guys do a pretty good job at keeping their feelings low-key.

# You feel it

Don’t ignore this feeling. Usually, it’s right. You have this gut instinct mixed with the feeling of sexual tension. In order to feel sexual tension, it needs to be a mutual feeling. If you have these feelings, you’re onto something. It doesn’t mean he’s going to kiss you, maybe he’s too scared, but why not try to make the first move. Maybe he just needs the barrier broken.

# He’s staring at your lips

Of course, when we talk to people we stare at their mouths. This helps us understand what they say. But this is different. If you speak and he stares at your lips, really staring, then this is THE sign he wants to kiss you. He focuses on what he wants and what he wants are those lips of yours.

# He’s close

Right now, you have no personal space. He’s right up in your space, and it doesn’t look like you’re going to get it back anytime soon. The gap between you is close, whether he’s planned it or not. His body leans into what he wants—YOU. He’s doing not this aggressively, he just wants to be close to you for the chance of a kiss.

# He touches your arm or back

The guy never immediately grabs the side of your face to kiss you, especially not on the first kiss. Instead, he gently grabs your arm or the small of your back to pull you into him. If he does this, be ready because that’s the first move when going in for a kiss.

# Eye contact

People tend to underestimate eye contact, but you shouldn’t. The eyes are the window to the soul as the quote goes. Yeah, sure, it sounds cliche, but it’s true. If he stares at you, holding eye contact with you, he wants you. He looks straight into your eyes, telling you exactly what he wants.

# He stops talking

This isn’t because he ran out of things to say. Trust me, he has a lot to say. But right now, he doesn’t want to talk. How will he be able to kiss you if he’s talking? If you notice him quieting, there’s a reason why—he wants to kiss you. He may be calming himself or trying to find the right moment to kiss you. Hence the silence—he’s focusing.