6 Tips That Will Help You Turn Your Kisses From Simply Good To Amazing

You must remember this; a kiss is not just a kiss. Especially when studies have proven that men and women will end a romance if the other person is a bad kisser. Ouch.

What makes kissing great and very, very HOT is when it's combined with experimentation, eagerness, and creative play. It's not just the kiss, but how you express yourself sexually through the kiss.

With that in mind, here are the top 6 tips that'll help you turn your kisses from simply good to amazing.

# Build anticipation

You know how excited you get the moment before you kiss? That feeling shows that kissing is more than just an act. Take time to stop, look your partner in the eyes and make a real connection. Each moment that you can increase anticipation, you are making that next kiss more special. So touch their face, their hair, and even tease them a little with a small peck before going all in. Every little thing adds to the overall experience and can make the different between lukewarm and steamy.

# Follow the leader

Pay attention to how your partner is responding to your kiss. Are they moving at the same pace as you? Do they seem nervous or aggressive? Being aware of how your kisses are being received can guide you as to where to go next. Great kissers know to be sensitive to the reactions they’re getting, and adjust the kiss based on the feedback they receive.

# Leave your comfort zone

If you want to kick your lip-lock up a notch, opt to mix it up a little. Find new places to lick, nibble, or stroke. Do something or share something you’ve never done or said before; perhaps a fantasy that thrills you or ask him to share his as you lick his neck.

# Be present

We often think that kissing and foreplay is a means to another end (SEX). Instead of thinking about what might happen next, focus on the kiss itself. Pay attention to how you’re feeling, the sensation of their lips on yours and let yourself feel every little touch. You may find that the kiss is deeper and more sensual when you stay in the present moment instead of always thinking about the next move.

# Slow it down

If the kissing is rushed, often the sex will be too. When it feels like you have all the time in the world to enjoy exactly what you’re doing, that’s when kissing becomes creative, explorative, passionate, and fun.

# Keep your eyes open

Eye contact can up the level of intimacy and closeness you feel to someone while kissing. Before going in for the kiss, take a few seconds to gaze into each other’s eyes. After the kiss, pull back and really look at each other. Then kiss again. You’ll find that the kiss is much more of a personal experience when you gently gaze into each other’s eyes.