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6 Tips To Give A Girl The Date Of Her Dreams
By: Kratika Mon, 01 Aug 2022 5:10:13
Every girl fantasizes about the perfect date, but what guys don’t know is a girl would be perfectly happy with simple acts of thoughtfulness instead of a grand show.
The only problem is that some guys can’t seem to live up to even the lowest of expectations. On a dating show, the host will ask a female player, “What is your ideal date?”
The most generic answer you can hope for is: A nice dinner at a restaurant, followed by a moonlit walk along the beach, and a perfect good-night kiss. Who wouldn’t want that, right? And it sounds pretty simple too, of course, unless you don’t live by the beach!
So what are guys’ options these days? A lot, if you design your next date based on this feature. Because almost always, it’s the little details that make all the difference between a bad one and a perfect date.
An ideal date isn’t about the ability to provide her with everything on her dream-date checklist, but it’s genuinely the thought and effort that counts.
# They want to get to know you
This is the most basic necessity of them all. It is the sole reason why she agreed to the date in the first place. No matter what happens by the end of the night, the date is designed to make you feel comfortable around each other enough so that you can both progress to a higher level of intimacy.
This is the primary reason why girls love going on dates. It gives them a chance to get to know you and see if they like who you are.
# They want to have fun
Although it’s necessary to talk about each other while on the date, there’s no rule saying that you can’t have fun while doing so. There’s a reason why the honeymoon stage is the most exciting stage in dating, and it’s because dates will always be fun!
Whether perfect or not, this is what girls seek in dates.
Even if you’re just having dinner, you can still have fun just by talking about the things that make her laugh and smile. Or, you can make your date different by taking her hiking or on an arcade date! The possibilities are endless when it comes to making sure both of you have a great time, and a lot of fun as well.
# They want to eat
Hell hath no fury like a woman starved! Some girls don’t like having dinner on a first date, but a three-hour date usually necessitates some form of sustenance. You can get coffee with dessert, a burger after getting drinks from a bar, or even a tub of popcorn while watching a movie.
You know what they say, if you want to make her happy, then let her eat! Taking her to a good restaurant with all her faves is a bonus for your dates.
# They want to tell you about themselves
Everyone wants an audience. They want to be heard and they want to be reacted to. Don’t just talk about yourself in the hopes of impressing your date. She’ll be able to tell whether you’re listening attentively, and if you care about what she’s saying. So don’t just pretend to hear her, but genuinely listen what she’s trying to tell you.
Don’t just use the date to brag about yourself, assuming she wants to know all about how awesome you are. Remember, conversations are a two-way street. You wouldn’t want to come across as selfish, would you?
# They want to know that you like them
Compliment your date. Acknowledge what she’s saying. Make her feel special. It’s not that hard. This is also another significant aspect of a date, especially a perfect date.
If you want to make the date as special as possible, make her feel liked and adored. Make sure she knows that you’re actually interested in her and getting to know more about her.
# They want to be treated like a queen
Of course, this should be on the list of what women look for on an ideal date. Generally, it’s not about how much you spend on the date, but how well you treat her.
Girls love going on dates because it makes them feel special, and if they’re with a chivalrous guy, it makes the date all the more special!