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6 Tips To Manipulate A Man And Get Him To Do What You Want
By: Kratika Mon, 04 Oct 2021 2:58:21
Do you want to learn how to manipulate men? Manipulating your man may not be ethical, but it’s something all women have to learn to use at some point. The thought of manipulating someone seems sketchy, and even, well, manipulative.
But to be honest, men and women do it all the time, subtly sometimes, and outrightly at other times.
Learning how to manipulate men and that special man in your life can seem uncomfortable, but if you understand how simple it is, you’ll see how effortless it can be! Women have been stuck with the ‘weaker gender’ tag since forever. But that view is heading for a complete makeover these days because women now know how to manipulate men and get things their way!
# Bore him to submission
Keep on talking and don’t stop. Go all out when you try and explain yourself when you want to manipulate men. This works very well, especially at times when you’ve picked up something really expensive, and your man doesn’t approve of it.
*a sexist example to drive a point* Tell him about how the crystal chandelier was just what you needed at home. “I could have always picked up that cheap lamp, with a manual attachment, and some ugly screws that would just disfigure the walls.
# I did it for you!
Any and every time you do something wrong, just let him know that the sole purpose of doing that was to please him. How were you to know that he wouldn’t appreciate the surprise holiday you booked for the both of you? How were you to know he wouldn’t like your new handbag or your new sexy lingerie or that luxurious perfume?
Didn’t you think that this would turn him on all the more? You tried your best to make him happy, that’s all. “I’m sorry you caught me in bed with a male stripper, I was just trying to learn a few new positions for you” . That obviously won’t go down that well.
# Make him prove you wrong
Men hate being told that there’s something that they can’t do, something that’s out of their league. And they absolutely love to prove you wrong. So don’t worry about how to manipulate men here. The trick is, quite simply to tell him! He doesn’t want to try that new lavender shirt that you lovingly bought for him?
# You are my saviour”
Okay, you don’t have to repeat the exact words, but let’s face it, men have epic egos. It’s in-built, so rather than complain about it, use flattery to your advantage while manipulating men.
He’s really angry with you for dragging him along for your office party? Tell him about how your colleague constantly brags about how she’s dating the world’s best boyfriend and putting you down. Tell your man how badly you wanted to show him off in front of that woman just this once. And to show her how lucky YOU are, to have a guy like HIM. And then see if he still sulks!
# Fine! I’ll do it on my own!
Emotional blackmail. Guys can’t stand it, but they also can’t do anything about it. So the next time he says he won’t help you with something, don’t fly off into a fit of fuming rage.
Just manipulate his mind and say, “Fine, I’ll go alone, because none of my other friends are free. If they were free, I wouldn’t have asked you anyways. It may be a little late in the evening, but then, that’s okay. It’s not like the city is not safe for girls to travel alone.” Oh, and don’t forget to wear your best martyr expression, and make sure it’s wee bit hurt, wee bit let down.
# Get his mom on your side
Now, all the monster-in-law theories apart, the pluses of getting his mom on your side are just way too many to be ignored, especially when it comes to women manipulating men.