6 Ways To Get Your Crush To Like You

Crushes happen all the time, sometimes it’s a passing glance, and sometimes, they’re all you can think about. Do you have a serious crush on someone? Do you want to know how to get your crush to like you back? There are a few specific things you need to do, to slowly make them fall for you, one day at a time!

Honestly, most people are far too shy to approach their person of interest, chat them up, and hint that they like them. Most of the time, when you have a crush on someone, it’s like you have a 20-ft barrier between the two of you, and you just wave from a distance. But if you want to make them like you, you need to move past this.

After all, if you ever intend for your crush to turn into something more, you need to let them know you’re interested. Or better yet, you need to show yourself off in all the right ways, and make them fall for you!

# Be yourself

Please don’t cringe or laugh at the cliché-ness that is this first step, because it is so vitally important. Too many people get around their crush and start acting like a completely different person. Why do they do this?!

When you act like yourself, you’ll be relaxed, calm, and happy, and your crush will see all of this and want it. Plus, when they finally do reciprocate your feelings, they’ll actually like you for you and not who you’re pretending to be.

Sure, you can fake it and pretend you’re someone else. And yes, you may succeed in getting someone to fall in love with you by being fake. But eventually, they’ll see your true colors. So, it’s important that no matter what, you stay true to yourself. They need to fall for you, not the person you’re faking in front of them or on social media.

# Be around

How can someone like you when you’re only watching them from a distance and they never have the opportunity to get to know you? Be around—wherever they are. Now, please note: this does not give you permission to stalk their life and show up out of the blue. We repeat: no stalking.

But if they’re going somewhere with a group of people and you’re invited GO! Be there whenever you can, and they’ll take notice of this and you.

# Make eye contact

You can be yourself, but of course, a little flirtatious eye contact never hurt anyone. Eye contact is an important part of communication, and you can tell a lot about someone and what they’re thinking just based on their eyes.

Now, don’t give them a creepy look, that won’t work out well for you.

# Talk to them!

Get up and go talk to them. They need to know who you are and talk to you from time to time in order to decide if they like you or not.

Talk to them about their interests and hobbies, and also give them some information about yourself. Open up to them and let them get to know you! If you’re not sure what to talk to them, use this guide on how to talk to your crush and learn all the real secrets to make them fall for you.

# Subtly show them you’re interested

Don’t make a huge spectacle of it, but drop subtle hints that you’re interested in them. A great way to do this is to make comments that suggest it.

If they ask if you’ll be at a certain event, reply by saying, “Only if you’re going.” Perhaps add a sly smile to pique their interest.

This will show them that you want to be where they are and are uninterested in anyone else being around. As long as they’re there, you want to be there, too.

# Join in on their interests

If you’re invited to tag along on some fun hobby of theirs with a group, you’d better go! You should always join in on things that they find interesting and even take an interest in them, yourself—but only if it’s a genuine new interest.

It shows them that you can definitely kick it with them and their favorite hobbies a very desirable trait in a potential partner.

# Dress to impress!

You know, we can’t say there has ever been a time where a well-dressed person hasn’t made an impression on their crush!

And what have you got to lose? It definitely doesn’t do any harm! So, whenever you’re around your crush, make an effort to look your darn best. Just make sure not to overdo it or overdress for events.