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6 Ways To Make A Girl Smile
By: Kratika Thu, 03 Dec 2020 2:13:58
How many times have we heard a guy complain about not knowing what to give his girl for an event, or what to do for date night, or that he generally has no idea what’s going on? Honestly, getting a girl's attention and making her happy is not that complicated. If you know what makes her smile, and you show your girl how much you actually do care about her, you can't go wrong. Of course, the hardest part is knowing exactly how to show a girl that you care. Guys tend to overthink it, and it makes for either a complete disaster or the girl not taking you seriously. So take the time to read through how to make a girl smile, and how to make her happy when she is dating you. Sometimes it can be something as simple as saying something sweet over text or making sure to talk to your girl, even if you're tired after a long day. Keep your girl from getting sad and feeling less than romantic about the relationship you two share. In case you're lacking creativity or just simply want some fresh ideas, here are your basic and best ways to make your girl happy.
# Surprise the sadness out of your girl
A girl loves being surprised. They love random acts of love and small unexpected gifts. If it is spontaneous and somewhat thoughtful, it is definitely going to be a win. It keeps things exciting, and a girl will be happy when she feels like she was worth the effort. Be sure not to do anything obnoxious or overly loud.
# Make your girl something and she will no doubt get pretty happy about it
Making something from scratch shows effort, and makes a girl feel special because you took all that time as you made it to think about her. Something personal is always the answer. Even if it looks homespun or cheesy, she is not going to be sad about it. As long as she knows it was thoughtfully crafted, your girl is sure to be smiling ear to ear, happy as a clam. Try making: A card. Decorate it, sketch, paint, however you like to make things, and write about how much your girl means to you on the inside of it. Bonus points if you tape tickets to a movie or a play inside for a future date night any girl would love. The fact that you are thinking ahead and are ready for the next romantic outing will speak volumes about how much you love her company. She'll be so happy to know that not only do you care about her now, but you're also carefully planning out future dates. Cook her favorite dish for a romantic dinner. Make fun or fancy decorations and lay out the food so that it looks pretty. If she was sad or feeling blue about anything that day, those feelings are bound to disappear as soon as she sees what you concocted for her. It will make your girl feel super special. Don't worry about whether or not it will taste or look perfect. She will melt with happiness at the fact that you tried making her favorite dish, and of course, guys are cute when they cook.
# A happy girl means a good texting game on your end
Nothing is worse than when your boyfriend won’t text you back, or just never initiates it. Texting is a way to show that even though you are not physically with someone at the moment, you are still thinking of them. Don’t play games, just respond as soon as you can. Again, not everything should be done over text, and most things should be said when you chat in person, but a chat over text can be meaningful as well. Be genuine and consistently text her to let her know she is still on your mind, even when she is not by your side.
# Be romantic
Women love it when their man gets romantic and a little touchy-feely. Do not hold back, but make sure you are being yourself. Be authentic and do things specifically for them. Make sure you are paying attention to what makes her happy and in the mood for love. Ask your girl questions, and keep the conversation going about what makes her swoon. If you seem genuinely interested, she will open up and help you out a little. Women like to receive romantic gestures, so do not hold back.
# Let your girl know how much she means to you. Constantly
Never let her doubt for a moment that she is not only your only girl but also priority number one with you. Make sure she feels loved, and don’t hold back when telling her. The key to a girl feeling happy is helping her feel valued. Make her feel like a gem, and she will never want to let you go. Make sure she knows that you never take her for granted, and you know what you have with her. Get emotionally intimate about it! The goal is to have her truly understand that she is everything to you.
# Be yourself
Speak your mind, let her in, be vulnerable, and never put up walls. Let her know that you trust her completely and if she will love and accept you for you, you can do the same. Let her see your quirks and the little things that make up who you are. Let her in on the things you want to change or improve about yourself, and don’t keep secrets. Be openly you, and she will do the same. She obviously likes you for you, if she is choosing to spend her time with you. Make sure your girl knows that you are letting her see the parts of you that others don't know about. As great as it is to be an open book, no girlfriend likes feeling like she only knows you as well as any other person does.