7 Best Places To Meet Women

Bars are probably the first thing that comes to mind when you’re thinking of where to meet women, but these are usually the worst places. Bars are often thought of because there’s always women there, and the alcohol makes for easy ice-breakers. The problem is women are usually put off by men at bars and clubs. Even if you’re the nicest guy on the block, she’s going to think you’re a d-bag.

So instead of trying the same thing that every other guy tries, why not think outside the box?

Before making any big moves, you’re going to want to figure out what kind of girl you want to date and go from there. For example, if you are a liberal atheist you are not going to find the girl of your dreams at a conservative church mass, ya’ dig? Visualize and then conquer.

# Through friends

Who says playing matchmaker is dead? Your friends know you better than anyone. They watched you succeed, know your likes and dislikes, and probably watched you yack into the sink after one too many. Now that’s a real friend.

And as your real friend, your buds know exactly what kind of girl you’re looking for. Male or female, ask if your friends *or their girlfriends or their friend’s friend* know of any girl looking to date a handsome stud such as yourself.

# At school

If you’re in college this is one of your last chances to meet women in a controlled environment. If you take the same classes you already have an in for making conversation. Ask if she wants to be your study buddy, share notes, and start sitting with her during class. This will get the hint across that you’re interested.

# Work events

Now that you’re out of school, work is the next level of meeting women. This can be a slippery slope since workplace regulations usually frown over co-workers dating. Potential breakups also make working together tricky afterward.

Combat this by going to someone else’s work event. Whether it be a different department in your building or just a friend’s office party. This is great because you know she has income, and you won’t have to bring home the bacon. Plus, you get to be Mr. Personality since you don’t actually work in her field and won’t be talking boring work jargon all night.

# Bookstores

Yes, they do still exist. If you’re a fan of reading and looking for an equally bookish girl, look no further than your local bookstore. Chains usually have a coffee shop right in the middle, making it the perfect place to chat up the nearest cutie. This makes for easy conversation, too. Just ask her what her favorite book is or if she has any recommendations. Easy peasy!

# Sporting event

If you love sports, why not find a girl who shares your passion? Start buying tickets to some local games and peruse your section for the sporty girl who isn’t sitting with another guy. Look for the girl with the painted face and the beer in her hand. We say that’s definitely girlfriend material.

# At church

If you’re looking for a girl with a spiritual side, then your local church/religious house is where it’s at. The more you become involved in your religion the more time you’ll get to spend with your potential girlfriend. This also works to your benefit since your involvement in spiritual activities will help build a sense of community and bond the two of you closer together.

# On public transit

What makes a two-hour commute to work easier than flirting with the cutie in the seat next to you? The only thing that makes that situation more enjoyable is if a burger fell from the sky while you were putting your moves on.